When programmers look for their wives-Some Thoughts on dating programs

Recently, Chinese dating programs have been very popular. I also often look at Hangzhou TV, Hunan TV, and Jiangsu TV. Now I think it's hard for programmers to find a wife, including my own experiences with finding a wife is also quite frustrating.

Hangzhou TV has seen many programs that match each other. In fact, many girls require boys to have a house, no matter whether handsome or competent, no house, in general, it is not easy to become or be passive. Society is still very realistic and life has a cold side.

 

In about 4-5 years, my ex-girlfriend left me. At the same time, my life and work fell to the lowest point in my life. When my career reached the threshold that could not be crossed, after I started my business, I burned a little bit of savings and owed my sister tens of thousands of yuan. It was almost the time for the New Year. It was cold and cold outside, and I was not willing to turn on the air conditioner. My pocket was empty, you can save a penny and lie in the rented house and look at the ceiling.

In the south, I am not happy. Do you want to go back to the north and find a job related to IT software in Beijing? Will it be closer to home? I feel like I am alone in Ningbo, and I have no close eyes. Then I look at people of the same age who have wives, children, houses, and cars, I am either a civil servant or a high-income group, and I am just a programmer who loves programming.

Every day I write programs and work hard every day until now. When I am desperate and wandering, the recruitment of a new round of big companies has started, we were lucky to have been hired by a big company for an interview.

Being busy at work cannot make up for emotional emptiness and physiological needs. When I got off work, I began to look for a partner. After all, it was only 27-28 at that time. It was really cruel and cruel to find a wife. Many girls asked me the first one: "Is there a house?" I sincerely say that even the waiters in the hotel are too lazy to develop any relationship with you without a house. Some people will continue to ask, "Are you a civil servant ?", If I say no, people will ignore me. However, if you think about it, it is not for girls to suffer with you.

Write out the most classic phone conversation during this blind date.

 

Telephone conversation of a programmer working in other places

 

A girl called directly and said, "How old are you ?"

A: "28"

Female: "Are you a civil servant ?"

A: "I am not a civil servant. I am a programmer working in an IT company"

Female: "The problem is not very serious if it is not a civil servant. How high are you ?"

A: "178"

Female: "You can still be tall. Are you handsome ?"

A: "Although not handsome, I still have to go"

Female: "Do you have a car ?"

A: "I have no car"

Female: "Do you have a house ?"

A: "I have no house yet"

Female: "There is no house. I can buy it at home. The problem is not serious. Do you want to say anything else? Are you from Ningbo ?"

A: "I am not from Ningbo"

Female: "Are you from Zhejiang ?"

A: "I am not from Zhejiang Province". Before I can tell where I am, the other party has hung up the phone.

 

When I think back to this phone call, I would like to thank my wife very much. When I have almost no money, when she had tens of thousands of yuan in debt, no car, no house, or no career, she still chose to spend time with me, and everything was almost done from scratch.

Now it seems that after 4-5 years, through the joint efforts of couples and children, the city's houses also have, the children are about to be born, and the car is learning, all the things start to be available. As long as you never give up your efforts, everything can be available, especially material things can easily come, even if the current effect is not very good and the progress is not obvious, we must work hard because we do not have to work hard, and we have no hope.

 

When my life was low, I visited a friend's house, looked at his wife, house, car, income, and work, I feel that the gap between myself and my friends is the same as that between heaven and earth,This article is not intended to show anything, but to give encouragement to colleagues who are still at low levels of work and life, and to those who are working hard in other cities, as long as you don't give up your hard work, you can do everything you can, and you don't want to be overwhelmed by the difficulties you face. Men need to work hard on their own.I will continue to work with you. When you encounter difficulties and think of me, I also fell into the bottom of my life, just like you, it took several years to climb out.

 

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