Who says girls don't have to work hard

From childhood to graduation to find a job, I have been surrounded by people to instill a point of view: Girls can do, wow, so hard to do. Said more time long, gradually my subconscious inside seems to think so. So I can go to college, although there is no hanging section fights bad, but also true nothing, no growth, no matter from skills to psychology. I just become more and more lazy, more and more vulnerable.

Work, every day seems to be the same as the robot daily, in the eyes of colleagues, friends, family members as if the only way is to find a person to marry off. How horrible, I may be 50 years behind my life is to be entrusted to a man. Family said girls how good you want to have a job and find a good condition for the boys to marry the good wow. It seems that my biggest task after work is to find a multi-gold and good man for me, after a lifetime of worry-free. Most girls how dare to think so, after you 50 years, your family after 50 years will be entrusted to the present one choice. The object you are looking for is willing to pay you for how long, 5 years, 10, 20, as a pessimist I can not believe that there is such a person exists. I asked if I am looking for this person does not love me later, how to do, the answer is so to find a good person will always be nice to you. Life is good for a person, except parents and relatives I can not believe that there is such a person exists, such people really exist? Anyway, even if there was, I'm sure he wouldn't choose me. Look, I am so pessimistic, because most of the examples tell us that love says more people, see too few people. And we are looking for the love of bread, this world of boys is also too miserable point.

Thinking so much, in the future I have nothing to rely on. Love will die, parents will be old, nothing can give me eternal protection. When I lose all protection in the future, I will face the world unarmed. So I have no reason not to work hard at the age of 22, only myself can give me a sense of security. Only your own savings will not leave you, only your own ability will not abandon you, only your own career will protect you and your family.

Cancer is the world's most lack of security signs, hehe! My most helpless time is to ask my parents what if I get divorced after a few years? And their answer is, so you're looking for a man who won't get divorced! How am I supposed to tell them? No one knows the end, until forever close their eyes, in their consciousness a girl marriage failed, life is a failure, so a lifetime need to linger. If I were to drag the other side of hell, I would never do it.

Who says girls don't have to work hard