Workplace alert: The five great killer of the Office

Killer one: Chat together

Counter-attack killer: Don't talk about privacy issues

In the office, colleagues spend the longest time together, chatting became a way to communicate with each other, contact feelings. The content of the conversation may involve a variety of things outside the work, and the mastery of the conversation with colleagues becomes a link that cannot be neglected in interpersonal communication, after all, the office is not free to confide in the voice of the "chat bar."

Psychological Analysis: Many employees like to talk about personal topics to close their relationship with colleagues, in fact, this is very dangerous. Some employees always want to chat about the situation, such as asking each other about the salary, because the salaries of colleagues often have differences. In fact, their wages are high or low, there is always the truth. It is better not to talk about this curious topic.

Give you a shot: the workplace is the arena, everyone can become your opponent, even if the partner is a good partner, may also suddenly face, he knows that the more you are more likely to attack you, the more you expose the more easily hit.

　　

Don't talk about personal problems, or the length of the company. You think it's okay to talk about other people, you can go back and forth on your own head, get burned, then run away seems to be passive.

Their own living conditions, such as more privacy issues, it is best not to reveal to others, say to either make people jealous, or by others think you are showing off, how to grasp are not good. Talk about the news, the weather and other well-known things.

Killer two: Pot phone porridge

Counter killer: Throw away curiosity

Would like to take a time to write and write things, tidy up the copy. But only to hear the female colleagues around the gentle telephone porridge: "What are you doing?" Where do you think you're going to eat? I'm waiting for you to pick me up! As long as this time of day, I feel like I do not exist, the next desk colleague gentle telephone porridge always let me not in the mood to work.

Psychological Analysis: From a psychological point of view, love in the office to play a personal phone first is the work of no plan, attitude is not serious performance, only such a mentality, will be remembered for a long time to make personal phone calls. On the other hand, some people subconsciously want others to hear his talk, and hope to get everyone's envy and praise, but also the work of an expression of distractions.

For other colleagues in the office, this kind of phone porridge may affect the relationship between colleagues, arouse the curiosity of other colleagues, or make people suspect that "the phone content is related to me?" At the same time, these noises will increase the psychological pressure of people, let people produce irritability, disgust mood.

Give you a weapon: don't make a lengthy office call. Business phone to control as much as possible within 10 minutes, can be in advance to think about the phone content, to be concise, clear expression; it is best to take personal calls without affecting the work of others, preferably not more than 3 minutes.

You can take some measures when you encounter a phone call that is inconvenient to answer in the office. If the phone is private, it is best to use the phone to pick up, go to the staircase to answer, or tell the other side to call him back later.

In the face of a colleague who is making a personal phone call, you can try to control yourself not to listen to her conversation, or to be angry, and take this time to go to the bathroom, cup of tea, stand up stretching.

If the other person's behavior for a long time to maintain, then also in her earnest work when loudly speak private phone, influence her, in the way of their people to make their body.

If she is really "puzzled amorous feelings", then write a small note directly to her, subtly remind her. Of course, the wording should be paid special attention, so as not to affect or even intensify colleague relations.

Killer three: Desktop clutter

Counter killer: Make the table fun

When you habitually turn your neck to be stiff, want to have a good rest, the face of countless documents, sundries of the desk, but can only frown, because can not find a place to rest on the ground, the mood suddenly become irritable, is because this has been a long time without finishing the table.

Psychological Analysis: A survey shows that people sitting in the office have 30% of the time to be cranky, whiny, irritable. The clutter in the office tends to make people's jobs worse, and worse, it infects others. The more sensitive and compassionate a person is, the more likely it is to infect a bad mood, which is accomplished unconsciously, and it takes only a short time to get down to an emotional infection.

Give you a weapon: from now on, organize your desk. A clean and tidy desk will make a person happy, and will make the work more orderly. But a personalized desk can make you feel better, you can put on your desk, some fun decompression decorations, such as more popular a solar pressure plant, if placed in a light place, the small plant leaves will automatically swing up, very interesting, and do not bother to take care of you. Cartoon of the decompression doll is also a good choice, the most important is the cartoon doll face always with the sun-like smile, put on the battery, it will be leisurely to nod your compliments, see it so happy, your mood will be good immediately.

Killer IV: Snacking

Counter-attack killer: No snacks in the office

Colleagues come back with a lot of souvenirs. In the work gap suddenly tasted delicious snacks, let Miss Stone immediately feel relaxed a lot. The following days, Shixiaojie specially bought a lot of snacks in the drawer, as long as there is free to take out to eat. A bag of biscuits and a bag of crisps made her feel very relaxed. Gradually, she became accustomed to using snacks to relieve her work stress.

Psychological Analysis: This "snack syndrome" has two main symptoms: one is anorexia, that is, do not like to eat dinner, but especially like snacking, a kind of gluttony, in addition to meals, but also a large number of snacks. This is related to the work pressure of the parties and other external pressure.

Frequent snacking in the office can be seen as a stress response to the outside world. General characteristics are: good mood or bad times, are big snacks when, hide in the lattice, appetite open, unscrupulous to eat snacks.

Give you a weapon: if you want to eat snacks in the work space (in addition to normal hunger), you must first think of yourself is really hungry, or there is no reason for the greedy. To consciously control your mouth, on time to eat full meal. After work, it is best to go to fitness, so that the pressure and tension of the day have channels to vent. Of course the best and most effective way is not to put snacks in the office at all.

Killer five: Sloppy dress

Counterattack killer: Appearance looks very "professional"

Some people wear some parts of the clothing shiny, some people pass by, smell bad smell, but also some dark shirt on the shoulder of the white dots, and others wear a set of clothes only a week, the match is not enough coordination. Women on the appearance of the more attention, the general women will not appear dirty clothes, the appearance of clothing is not suitable for the environment is relatively more.

Psychological analysis: This kind of men and women, most of them do not put themselves in the right position of a professional person. It may also reveal a lack of enthusiasm and responsibility for his work. The maintenance of interpersonal relationships in the Office also lacks careful consideration, but rather self-centered, with preference.

Give you a weapon: In addition to pay attention to their own health, but also consciously set up a good self-image, which allows people to maintain the posture and demeanor at all times. Professional women's clothing should be in different occasions to choose the appropriate dress, in order to reflect the right posture and demeanor. Sometimes, a person who respects his or her work can see what industry he is engaged in by wearing it. such as teachers, lawyers and so on.

Modern women are mostly professional women, the most out of the occasion is the office. Office attire should basically be generous and decent, reflecting professional qualities of professional women. No matter what career you are in, you should at least dress like an insider. "Clothing language" silently interprets your industry and your professional attitude, directly affect your image in other people's eyes, affect other people's attitude towards you.

Workplace alert: The five great killer of the Office