Four stages of maturity and romance

Four stages of maturity and romance (the dragon core is not ready yet, so there is nothing to say about it, so let's start something else)

A psychologist once wrote that a mature love affair can be called true love.

It must go through four phases:

Codependent)
Counterdependent)
Independent (independent)
Interdependent)

The time required for switching between stages is not necessarily time-consuming.

Phase 1: coexistence.

This is a time of hot love. Whenever and wherever lovers are, they always hope to get together.

Stage 2: Anti-dependency.

When the sentiment is stable, at least one Party wants to have more time to do what they want, and the other party will feel cold.

Stage 3: independence.

This is a continuation of the second stage and requires more independent time.

Stage 4: symbiosis.

At this time, the new way of getting along has taken shape, and your (her) has become your closest person.

Together, you support each other and create your own life together.

Together, you will not be tied to each other, but grow together.

However, it is a pity that most people fail to break up in the second or third stage.

A lot of things will be okay if they communicate well. Don't be personal or think too much about mutual trust. In this way, the second and third stages of time will be shortened.

It is not easy to fall in love with the person you love. Don't give up.

The reason for the two to get together is that they have an affinity and mutual awareness is because they have the heart and really have to cherish this blessing.

We hope that we can see the four stages above and give you some inspiration and understanding, and we will gradually become the ones we love.

You have nothing to do with him. You are not similar in appearance, and have a similar personality. Once you fall in love with him, you will be surprised that your eyes are a bit like his eyes, his smile is a bit like yours.

The pace and tone of your speech are also similar. There is a mole in his neck. One day, you find that there is another mole in your neck. We will become our loved ones.

You have always liked a down-to-earth person, but he has always been a light man, but if you fall in love with him, he will become an honest man without knowing how to change him.

He liked lively girls, but fell in love with you. These days, you have become more and more lively, and you almost couldn't recognize yourself. We will gradually become the ideal person of the other Party. This change is definitely not deliberate. Two people love each other for a long time, and their temperament is getting closer and closer. You thought that he was not the type you dreamed of. However, one day, you are surprised to find that he has become the type you like, you don't have to look around any more. He is the person you are looking.

When you love someone deeply, you really lose yourself at. Why do you still feel happy?

It is probably because you are making a profit when you lose it. You have earned both his temperament and his smile ......

Happiness is simple ......

Therefore, it is easy to obtain simple talents ......

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I hope everyone can get a satisfactory result. It is really not easy to find someone you love. Please cherish it!