Home is not a reasonable place _ get married after the necessary knowledge _ classic Net Pick

Married to see. Unmarried is more to see
This is a letter from the mainland sent by my good friend when he was married in a foreign country. The wedding day emcee in public to read out the full text, that is I have seen the most quiet a treat occasion, the presence of students are all for the love of their parents and moved, although the story is still deeply imprinted in the mind, this article later spread open, I have been saved until now, hoping to enlighten you.


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Ping er:

Mom and Dad hear you want to get married good news, really happy for you, far away, we can not attend your wedding, we can not offer our parents speech, this is a little regret in our hearts.
But you are our daughter, I believe you can understand mom and dad a feeling.
The day I put down the phone, your mother and I have been silent for a long--how can our children grow up all of a sudden?
Later, your mother said to the mirror lightly:
You see, my white hair is more, ping son also should get married.
I counted your mother's white hair, those white hairs like many past events, one thing floating on the heart. Your mother reminded me: Write a letter to my daughter. Even if it's a wedding present that we gave you.

Ping son, we are only the most ordinary parents, our children are only the most ordinary daughter, we do not expect too much, just hope that my children embark on the road to marriage, to life after the journey, can be full of Thanksgiving, bon voyage here, give you a life experience.
First to tell you: Home is not a reasonable place.
This sentence sounds, very unreasonable, but it is true, this sentence is the truth, is the rationale, how many couples, how many families (including our home) with how many years, how many bitterness, how much love hate, how many right and wrong, how many to the fault, in the tangled inextricably confusion, comb out a final conclusion.
When the couple started arguing, the house began to shade.
Both will unconsciously embrace a pile of distorted reasoning,
Hostile to each other, hurting each other,
Finally can only be mutually-lose, difficult to clean up.
How many couples, for the superficial one (rationale),
end up being heartless.
They don't know,
Home is not a reasonable place,
It's not a place for reckoning.
So, what is (home), where is the home?
When we were young, ping-er,
Can not answer this question;
And as many couples do,
To quarrel over a trifle.
That year, for your little uncle's mobility problem,
I had a big fight with your mom,
Even to the point of getting divorced.
It was only in that time that we lacked courage.
Until one day,
An old comrade-in-arms at his child's wedding said:
(Wish you A Long life, love Forever),
Love this short word, like Spring thunder in my heart.
Yes, home is not a reasonable place,
Home is the place to talk about love.
Love is easy,
Love for the lifetime is not easy,
There are many beauty in this need to be summed up and experience.

Second, we have to tell you:
Marriage is an empty box,
You have to put something in there.
To get the things you want;
The more you put in, the more you get.
Many people get married with many expectations of marriage,
Look forward to the wealth, through comfort, love, peace, happiness, health,
In fact, when the marriage started,
It's just an empty box.
Two of people come together,
Be sure to form a habit,
To give, to love, to serve, to appreciate each other,
In the future, the empty box will be enriched gradually.
The empty box should be put first should be (Miss),
Miss is a kind of things that make us unforgettable.
It was two a man with a certain, with an emotion,
Then to care, and then love a mood.
(missing) is a path that leads home when you are tired.
Is the warmth of a cold winter night,
is a rush to open the door after the blow to the home rice incense ....
The empty box is also to be put into (art), the Art of marriage life.
In the marriage Life,
Where there is a need to speak art everywhere,
Angry has art, quarrel has art.
A couple has raised five children with all their hardships,
It's hard for them to understand.
One day, the couple quarreled about a little thing for their children,
The more noisy the more fierce, seeing out of hand, his wife suddenly said:
Wait a minute, I'm going to have a baby.
This sentence, is the art of fighting.
Marriage in the box, in addition to put (Miss) and (art) outside,
There are many things that can be put in,
This awaits your own filling.
Write here to think of a writer saying a word
You have him, you teach him, your duty is done, and the best gift you give him is a pair of wings.

Ping son, this letter, is the wedding gift that mom and dad gave you,
They want you to take our blessings and fly happily!

Dad, Mom.

Married two people have a marriage, and then there is a common place, this place is called home. Here becomes your tired day rest place, here becomes the world which you and the lover create together. But there's a routine here that can't get here. That's the reason. People do not reason, is a disadvantage, people only know reasonable, is a blind spot. Usually, the more knowledgeable people believe in the rational travel of the world. It may be possible to travel around the world, but walking to the family will not make sense.

Often people say: "Home is not reasonable place, husband and wife is not a reasonable relationship." "It sounds unreasonable at first blush, but it is true, it is truth, it is the word." For women, marrying a husband was not because he was good at reasoning. But I really hope that he can hurt himself, love his life. Now he forgot to love himself, and he always reasoned with himself. Yes, the husband is very reasonable, will be reasonable, white horse can be said to be a dark horse, can be said to the water into oil, these themselves have already known, the heart also understand, but listen to is so awkward, husband you even have 101 reasons to how?

For men, the original wife, not because she is good at reason, but because she is cute, she is concerned about herself, rain remember to remind herself to take an umbrella or send an umbrella, oneself outside socialize unhappy, go back to talk with her rather than pressure in the heart, she can take care of themselves, pain their own life. Now she forgot to take care of herself and hurt herself, but she reasoned with herself in everything. Does it make you feel better?

In fact, when the couple began to argue, the home is afraid to start to cast a shadow. Both people will unconsciously hold a pile of distorted reasoning, refute each other, hurt each other, finally can only lose, difficult to clean up. Remember, home is not a place for reason, home is a place for love.