How to conduct self-debugging in the face of complicated management (chapter 1 of the project manager training manual)

The great Confucius taught us that "the wise is better than the good, and the good is better than the happy ." This means that, in the face of complex work, to do well, you must be able to find fun. The old man of Chairman Mao also said, "It is a great pleasure to fight with heaven, fight with the Earth, and fight with others." management can be considered as a microcosm of fighting with people, therefore, the real managers should be able to experience great fun in this process, and even feel happy in this process. Then they will become the "happy" of Confucius to educate us ". Of course this is an ideal situation. Most managers, especially those who have transformed from technicians, will face some problems.

The specific characteristics of these problems are dry mouth, dizzy, unhappy, and occasional intermittent hysterical or behavioral disorder. The reasons for this phenomenon are complex, it is generally related to various pressures in the project management process. Although most of the project managers who come from technical personnel are wide-hearted, it doesn't take long for them to do this job. They just need to share two unreliable younger siblings, a big leader or a customer who likes to shoot his head and find a solution, A few leaders who like to shoot their chests and blow their skins, it's hard for you to "get angry from your heart and give birth to your guts". I'm afraid it's inevitable to shoot at the table. Since you have shot the table, maybe someone will take a shot and leave the house. Even if no one leaves, you will also pat your thigh and regret it sooner or later. Basically, this kind of depression in project management is a common practice that can be seen everywhere. If you do not adjust yourself in time, you will die at your desk due to heart disease sooner or later, or the cerebrovascular split may die in the meeting room.

The great historian, Mr. Sima Qian, once taught us that "a person is inherently dead, or greater than Taishan, or less than Hong Mao ." If you die for the project, I am afraid it cannot be more important than Taishan, whether it is light than hongmao, or whether the project finally brings benefits to the company. In short, I think this is not worth doing, so here I want to tell you how to deal with the various pressures in the project and how to adjust yourself well.

The biggest secret to self-psychology adjustment is to understand what you want and give up what you don't want. I told you the secret at the beginning. It may be a little confusing to do so. After all, people prefer to strip the cloth package with paper bags and strip the paper bags with small boxes, after a lot of checkpoints, I finally found a small piece of paper that says "scratching. In fact, scratching is the best recipe to cure itching, but you have to put it in overpackaging to make people feel its importance. The value of excessive packaging lies in turning a piece of gold into a packed gold or a piece of shit into a packed dog.

However, people are particularly obsessed with packaging. It is certainly not valuable to believe in anything. Only by looking for a thousand Baidu in the crowd can we realize the value of life. In many cases, the pressure that the project manager creates for himself may be the process of searching for him in the crowd. Maybe the demand for this process is not the intention of the Project Manager, he just wants to make things better, provide better performance, better architecture, higher code quality, more convenient maintenance, and more friendly interface, the application is more considerate. But at, the Project Manager tightened the rope head in his hand, but did not know that the other head of the rope was wrapped around his neck until he had a bad breath and spit the white foam on his feet, at the beginning, there may be no need to make everything so nervous. Many things can be regarded as plus functions. If there are these functions, they will certainly be icing on the cake, but they will not be able to do anything. However, at this time, the project manager has been difficult to ride, and it will be too late. So the most important thing is to select several items at the beginning of the project.

First, what do I want to get from the project? People's actions cannot be aimlessly. Pure self-entertainment can only be a pleasure after a meal. Work can never be a pleasure. If you take work as a pleasure, it is just to start your own business. Although you may not pay attention to yourself, you cannot joke about your own life in the company. If you are really disheartened and want to make an extreme experience, I suggest you perform a short cruise. There are still many people in our society who are not as happy as you are.

Second, what the company wants me to do is usually different from what the company wants me to do. Lu Xun said that creation is often designed for mediocre people. This seems to be a joke about fate, however, in most cases, what you want is not what you don't want. This is the so-called life. I suggest you do not compete with fate at this time. Although there are many people with disabilities in the world who have written many beautiful inspirational stories in the spirit of unyielding struggle with fate, if you haven't seen it, you can refer to Homa, left Qiu Ming, and Helen. the stories of Keller and Zhang Haidi, but as I waited for the promotion of small people, there was no need to fight against the trend, and there was no need to fight against the fate of the strong, obey the organizational arrangements in a down-to-earth manner. The security score plays its role in this process. Once you enter the role, you will soon find that your previous ideas may be very naive, at the same time, you may have a lot of fun from new jobs and new roles.

Third: the most important thing I usually leave at the end. I have a very important secret on the issue of self-adjustment, that is, by leveraging the power of art to stop sticking to project work. Nowadays, many people think that this word is a positive term. In my opinion, it is a neutral word at most. If it is difficult to do so, it becomes a negative term. If you are obsessed with science, you can become Bruno or Tesla, if you are persistent in your ideals, you can become tan Tongtong or Chen Tianhua. In short, there are many persistent and great people, but if you do not like the above "great" methods. You can also choose to forget your work for the moment. There are many ways to forget your work, such as playing cards, drinking alcohol, Bundi, and karaoke, however, we should leave these intense ways to those friends who are in love. They are more painful and need help. We can find a quiet place to listen to music, or go to the art museum to see paintings. The reason is that all the art is full of life. It is different from the fast-growing consumer art that relies on the star effect, most of the things with long-term vitality can make people feel quiet, and I finally recommend this kind of art to you. Hope you can have fun.

Finally, I will introduce several basic methods of self-regulation here. I hope you will benefit from it and jump out of the numerous and varied jobs to get away from the bitter sea for the time being.