In the face of temptation, I realized how fragile I was.

I recently completed my headhunting career and transferred to a high-tech company for full-time recruitment. Company scale in200Internet companies are gaining momentum. No, I'm sure I'm not here either!

 

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I have just stabilized my new position. My friend called Yue again recommended a new opportunity for me. It should be said that it is very tempting.

 

What is a "good" opportunity?

It is a basic requirement for everyone to keep improving. Walking height is an ideal condition for professional discovery.

For me, although there are many resources in the headhunting industryXxI am not very attractive to headhunting consultants or other Headhunting companies. I am very clear about the status of various Headhunting companies, no matter what the Headhunting companies, I am not interested.

 

This "Temptation" is my chance: an outsourcing team of a professional human resources company.LeaderThe salary is quite attractive.

The reason is as follows:

1,Professional human resources consulting company, is a relatively large brand. If I have worked in such a company, it will be advantageous for my future development in human resources;

2,It is a sense of accomplishment to lead the team to accomplish their goals. This position can effectively combine my sales experience and headhunting experience;

3,Attractive Salary. I became a father of mine last year. Earning more money to support the family is the same idea of every father-in-law.

 

AndLeaderThe opportunity was introduced by a friend Yue. At that time, I had a pertinent speech and hoped to give it a serious consideration.

To be honest, it's a bit exciting. Even so, I went through the "Decision-making process ".

 

My decision-making process

 

Step 1 DrawTTable comparison of opportunities

TIn 《Skip or not. This is a problem.--Analysis on the cost of job change.

 

Current company position

AdvantagesDisadvantage

Close to home (20Minutes, it's definitely a treasure in Beijing)	Normal income (current income cannot be considered low.MBAI am also hiring, and my salary is lower than mine.20%)
Relatively stable and familiar environment
Cooperating with current leaders is tacit, and both sides have established trust
Moderate pressure

 

New Company position

AdvantagesDisadvantage

Current salaryDouble(You can talk more about it)	Far away from home (daily4Hours On The Road)
Internationally renowned human resources professional company (brand)	The management team is highly mobile and the environment needs to be familiar
Team (I am alsoMBA, With the desire of the Team)	Domain style needs further understanding
......	A lot of work pressure (mainly bringing teams to complete the performance)
	......

 

Step 2 Listen to comments from friends

I asked my friends and mentors in the workplace, and quickly formed two completely different opinions.

A friend from the sales background suggested to becomeLeaderThe reason is: a man needs to raise his family and son, so he needs to make more money. As for the pressure,LeoYou are a sales engineer. This is not a matter of pressure. You have not been in the maintenance period yet !!!

HRIt is recommended that you continue to work in your current position. The reason is: my current job can spend more time with my family and my son, and I can spend more time learning (my next learning goal is to become a doctor). The time will never go forever! In addition, the cost for job change is too high. It's time for you to settle down !!!

 

After hearing my friends' opinionsTThe table adds a lot of content.

 

Step 3 Ask your wife

There are3Man.

1,Little money, but time spent with family members;

2,Making a lot of money makes little care at home. It is short for business type;

3,There is a balance between the two. This kind of person is rare, referred to as super success.

 

My wife's point of view is: I think I am not the third kind of man (because of limited ability and Energy). As for family-type or business-type jobs, I choose which one is supported by me.

 

Final Result

Based on my opinions on several aspects and my own situation, the two are the most informative.TThe table is weighted.

Finally, I chose to reject the temptation"-Declined the good intentions of the month and month. I prefer to spend more time with my son and study at the same time. I also have the opportunity to do things that I like very much, such as career guidance and writing.ArticleWhat.

 

 

Gains

1People may be tempted

Many years ago, a friend said to me, "I have a mouth to persuade others ." I was not deeply touched at the time, but this time I deeply felt that there was still a difference between giving suggestions when others made decisions and making decisions on their own.

People may be tempted. When I first came, I was a little dizzy. Fortunately, I have summarized the countermeasures (TTable ). As long as we follow the methods, we believe that we will always get the best benefits and gains for ourselves.

 

2Find out what you want

After this temptation, I know more about what I want to do, what I want, and what I want to be. It's a bit like the ghost queen in the first part of Lord of the Rings.GaladrieWhat I said after the temptation of The Lord of the RingsI pass the test. I will diminish and go into the West.

What I want to say isI pass the test. I will stronger and clearer.

 

In the face of temptation, I once again saw my weakness. I may feel more relaxed next time ......

 

# Published by sbtosb on 11:59:15 IP: 219.136.212 .*

Simple If you are in your 30 s, select 1 If you are in your 20 s, select 2 Over

# Gehantao published on 13:30:27 IP: 210.77.134 .*

Leo, I have already succeeded in my family and career. I am still struggling! Strive for your own career and ideals!

14:02:01 the author replied: Thank you! My family is ready, but my career is still unsuccessful. I will continue to work hard !!!

# Helloworld3 published on 16:44:58 IP: 222.66.57 .*

I am very confused. At present, I have been working in technical support and development for two weeks in a very well-known company. Once I heard that my headhunting was about to reach/m in four years, I thought I was too low, I want to resign and find something else, but I'm afraid I can't find a million. It is troublesome to find a job during the trial period. I really don't know what to do. Also posted. Http://community.csdn.net/Expert/topic/5643/5643793.xml? Temp =. 8405878.

# Aa published on 17:17:10 IP: 220.201.36 .*

I will stronger and clearer Why not add be?

# Yanboy posted on 20:05:59 IP: 60.216.210 .*

Yes. Finding what you like is the most important thing.

# Talentluo published on 21:15:07 IP: 122.0.191 .*

I select 2... Because I am in my 20 s

08:50:26 the author replied: Young.

# Onlykwx published on 23:05:18 IP: 221.221.25 .*

Everyone is different. If you have no family or children, if you do not start a business, you will select 1

# Ilovepc2010 published on 12:51:27 IP: 220.171.250 .*

You are very good. I just graduated, have no girlfriend, and have no good income. How can I continue? Come on !!

# Azraeln published on 14:32:53 IP: 121.15.116 .*

If it is me, I think it may be better to select 2. After all, there is a lot of energy now. Select 1 unless it is more than 10 K at present,

# Freasy published on 15:31:44 IP: 222.240.167 .*

Support, happy work, happy life, no need to be a slave of money

# Fxbird published on 21:38:22 IP: 221.201.176 .*

I support the idea of a blogger. People do not live for work, but work only for survival. We need to distinguish between priorities and priorities. You can earn almost enough money to achieve a well-off society. Otherwise, it will only increase your worries.

# Sbp2007 published on 09:03:31 IP: 221.224.194 .*

In addition to raising a family for work, better life is more important!

# Peng published on 10:16:39 IP: 192.168.21 .*

In the face of temptation, everyone has made different choices, but Leo is still a very rational man. Since everyone is a HR staff member, I will also provide him with a good opportunity, at the same time, I would like to thank Leo for his article which has inspired me a lot in my later career planning. Thank you!

# Eric posted on 20:29:27 IP: 222.71.172 .*

Haha, everyone will make a choice from their own standpoint on this issue. The suggestions of friends are also taken into consideration from their own standpoint. The key is the author himself, I think it is a good choice as long as the landlord understands himself and makes a decision after consideration.

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