got a call from a friend and said he wanted to go to Lhasa. Subconsciously, I think, in this season suddenly want to go to Lhasa girl, must be injured. So, after roughly saying "now is not the right season," I was very careful to ask her where the city is also beginning to cold? Not surprisingly, the topic naturally transitions to her life in that city for the past two years--it's not good to be glamorous ...when we go to school together, we don't know each other very well. After graduation is very little, almost strangers. This is the reason why she can put down all her worries, and pour out all her troubles: it's like talking to a stranger. a few years ago, she was still at school. Boys think she looks very good, character is not bad, temperament, accomplishment and so on have not reduced points, in short, is very popular. But she had never been in love and never seemed to have heard her talk about it. She is very progressive and has a habit of reading, which is admirable--and I know her only this way, if there is no such call tonight. She said, she is really longing for such a relationship: In many excellent suitors chose that scenery no two, began their own happiness, others envy of life. She is very dependent on material, like clothes, shoes, jewelry, purses ... So she studied hard and now works hard, hoping she can support it. I know she is not shallow, from her book list can be seen. So, suddenly I realized how much she was longing for these things, and I was somewhat surprised. Speaking, she is even very literary, like poetry, can draw, watch the minority films, collect some beautiful postcards. I think that her current cultivation and income is enough to guarantee her freedom of movement between the material Empress and the fresh literary style. The thing is, she really has a lot of good suitors, one of the most beautiful she is also very satisfied: from the outside to the inside of the match, love her and give her the material menu added two hard dishes: room, car. The result of a glamorous life is that she's getting bored ... A lot of luxuries and a good book can not make her feel satisfied, a bunch of suitors and a feeling can not please her, always feel that there should be a more perfect life, but do not know what it will be like, the Apostle born depressed. The sentiment piled up a little, piled higher, and until today she felt as high as the Qinghai-Tibet Plateau, and decided to go to Lhasa to try and unload the trouble. I did not say anything, the topic asked her whether she read the FU Lou Worship "Mrs. Bovary." She said no, but knew the story: A girl named Emma was married to the Charr Bovary. The Charr love her, forgive her, protect her, but also good, ability and accomplishment, is a model husband. But Emma always felt something wrong, and her imagined marriage should be more glamorous and beautiful. The two were invited to the Marquis's house to begin the journey of Emma to death: The Feast of matter and lust, which revolutionized the quest for something more glamorous in Emma's subconscious. Soon, she could not remember the specific people and things at the ball, but that scene turned into a light point, guiding her to the dark. Emma began to pay attention to the life of the high society in Paris, subscribe to "Sharon Fairies", learn about horse races, theatres, banquets, and also look at Eurencoux-et-Barzac's book, quit the old maid, teach the new maid how to serve her with the etiquette of the upper society. When her growing desire for material and lust ran into the tranquility of the village town where she lived, the pent-up feeling burst over. Love Emma's Charr, for her and chose to move, but unfortunately to the two people into a deeper mire. Emma began to cheat under the strong desires and desires of the merchant, the symbol of substance, Leon, and Rodalfe, which, in Emma's view, were infinitely bright and beautiful, and eventually put her to death, and poisoned herself with the scars of her debt. In this process, the Shire is always an blameless moral model and perfect husband, but also one of the executioners. It is not uncommon for women to be crushed by material and lust (men, perhaps more), and Mathilde, like Maupassant's necklace, was robbed of a fake necklace for almost a lifetime. And Mrs. Bovary's particularity is that she is a good upbringing, reading a lot of books, knowledge and taste, not superficial woman, fate is more tragic than Mathilde. I asked her if she knew why. Or more specifically: why no matter how much to improve oneself can not go out of material and lust, still obsessed with the seemingly beautiful shiny? She says that's why she wants to go to Lhasa: try to find the answer. I thought for a moment, or swallowed my answer, and maybe she could find a better one. After reminding a few notes, I suggested that she take a copy of "Mrs. Bovary" on the road, also "not heavy" ... Hung up the phone, I thought, and sent her a text message: "Go, not the best season, but it is the best time." " Good luck, my friend. When you come back, I hope to take my answer, for you. reading, traveling, painting, watching movies and collecting postcards are good things, knowledge, accomplishment, taste is also a nice thing, but these do not necessarily make people out of desire. The key, it seems, should be close to the "realm" of things: you are all expensive. A lot of people, such as Emma and this friend, before picking up a book, have been holding the "get" mentality: through reading, get thousand Zhong, Gold House, Yanruyu, car horse such as cluster. So, the book read more, and eventually bowed to the matter and lust before. Others, such as reading, traveling and other things, do not in exchange for material and feelings, but only want to gain more knowledge and experience, improve their own-this seems desirable, in fact, more dangerous. The distress is that, despite the danger, it is a necessary stage. It turned out that I had given myself the perfect life I had hoped for, one of which was a complete knowledge structure and a rich life experience, and then a pleasure from the Roman poet Crichous: "It is interesting to stand on the shore and watch the sea-boat bump in the wind and waves." It's a funny thing to stand in the Castle window and look down. But standing in the mountains of truth to see the people below, some go astray, some wander quartet, suddenly Misty, suddenly changing, this kind of fun is more on other pleasures. Then, fortunately, unconsciously realizing that the attempt to climb to the high mountain of truth looked down, Ben went astray.
no matter "improve oneself" such reason is how openly, also regardless of knowledge, accomplishment, experience these things have how full commendatory, as long as hold "get" mentality, will eventually fall into the endless desire mud, die in pursuit of more possession. Only "put down" and enjoy the process of doing these things without asking, every little bit of the harvest will become a surprise-because it is not available. as Tao Yuanming "good reading, superficial understanding." Every knowing, he gladly forgets to eat. "It is because of superficial understanding, do not intend to get anything from the book, so just really appreciate the fun of reading," Every knowing "will" gladly forget to eat. " Mr. Feng has divided his life into four realms: nature, utility, morality, and heaven and earth. The highest state, man and the universe into one, because let go of everything and get everything, seemingly nothing but all, to dust the body eventually feel the vast world. This is the realm that we will never reach, but it does not prevent us from doing something that people in this realm will do at some point-just as humans cannot live on the top of the Everest but can climb peak and take a look at the scenery there! friends, you will see a lot of many sutra, how gorgeous ... And the unseen wind, and make it fluttering, every time the fluttering is a communication with the gods ... However, if you do not have this faith, then all this will not have any good moral, is only glamorous. You are so smart, you must understand in your present life, which is the flags, which is the wind?! Is there a spirit missing?! Original address: http://www.nowamagic.net/librarys/eight/posts/2785
Most of the things that kill us are shiny and even beautiful.
