Personal Management: Use "why" to change our results

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• "Why" Power
• Ask yourself
• Why give you motivation
• Locate the cause in step 3
• My shares
• Agile individuals: Summer sharing

Everyone is motivated to do things. The simplest and best way to find motivation is to ask yourself "why ". Agile individuals can make people smarter, because as long as you are willing, they can quickly cultivate self-reflection awareness and let yourself see the reasons behind your behavior. After you see it, your vision will be wider, your understanding of yourself will be clearer, and you will be easier to deal with the current things.

Many people around us make various "decisions" every day to change their lives ", I want to lose weight, I want to quit smoking, I want to get up early, run, find a good job, read a book every week, and learn English for one hour every night. Every time I make a decision, it is very firm, however, it is very likely that the passion for the past few days or even a few hours has been lost. When every promise in our lives changes to the decision of the next year, do we need to think carefully about what makes us fail to fulfill our commitments?

If you want to change one thing but delay or cancel it, as long as we use the word "why", you will find that these three words can change our lives, let us succeed.

"Why" Power

I implemented it a few years agoReport EngineOthers are not especially willing to do it. I remember saying, "even if you don't do it, I will finish it by myself ." Finally, the company decided to develop the report engine, and two other coders were working with me. I was responsible for the core part of the underlying engine. The results are of course completed, and the application is also very good. Most of the company's products are still using this report engine. When you do something well, someone will ask you, "How did you do it ?". I may say, "I justTrueIt's that simple to implement it and decide to do it right away ".

I know that such a simple answer is not enough to help others, so I have also thought aboutTrueWhat is happening behind achieving it and putting it into action?

When we make a decision, there will be two important elements:

1. For example, "I want to build a business platformOpenexpressapp"
2. Why do we need to decide the reason for #1 and the passion to do it right away?

One secret is that when we make a decision, commitment, or a goal, the only important thing that determines whether we are successful is whether we have found a reason that is large enough for our success. This is why.

Ask yourself

Before we begin, ask ourselves:"Why is this important to me? Why must I do it?"Once you have asked yourself these two questions, there will certainly be a strong reason or a series of reasons that have ignited your enthusiasm. These reasons keep you up until the end, and you will not stay the same or delayed.

If there are so many things that have been wanting to change but haven't changed, it must have not taken the right action. One of the main reasons isI didn't give myself an ideal reason to inspire and bring myself passion..

Why give you motivation

Not everyone will ask these two questions, for example, "why do you want to dance ?" "Why do you want to eat ?". Even if you ask, it will succeed, because not everyone can find out the real lasting reason. Let's take a look at some examples below:

Decision:I want to make a business. It can make me $20,000 a month.

Cause:I need more money
 
For most people, the idea of making more money is always very excited at the beginning, but few people will do something to improve their wealth, because they think they can do it now. Even when they start a new business or a new investment. But because they do not really use the power of "why", they will give up too early.
Remember, if you really want to do something, you need to know not only what you want, but also why you want it.

The following are some better reasons for this decision:

• My family should have a good life. I don't want to see them rush for income.
• My family wants a bigger house.
• My current financial status cannot help anyone at all. I don't like this. I need to change it.

What we need to do is to clearly define why we want this decision and remember it every day.

Locate the cause in step 3

1. Make a decision
   Decide the result you want to implement. What are the clear results you want to achieve? Is it making money? Or to improve health? Or is it necessary to expand interpersonal relationships?

2. Find out why you need it and ask yourself some questions:

   • Why do I have to make this decision in my life?

   • What will my life look like if I don't have it?

   • Is there anyone around me affected by this decision? How much do I care about them? How much will they suffer if I don't do this?

3. Apply the power of "why" every day
   Write why on a piece of paper so that you can see it every day. It takes at least 10 minutes to make yourself feel the power it brings from emotion. Visualize and feel how important this decision is to you. In our actions, we not only need to provide information, but also provide ourselves with lasting motivation.

My shares

InAnnual Summary and plan: 4 in the last year and 5 in the current yearI said that one of my 1 is to introduce the togaf architecture method. I did not want to make this decision before, but decided based on the current technical situation of the project team.

• Decision:Introduce one architecture method: togaf
• Why is this important to me?
  • Without a business architecture, there will be no product success. Without a business architecture method, there will be no good business architecture. As a team member, I very much hope to see a more mature method to guide us in the Business Architecture and promote product success.
  • Business architecture is an important part of the business platform. If you do not know the business architecture method, I don't expect to be able to make a good platform.
• Why must I do it?
  • If someone is able to think about and do a good job on the business platform, I will never think about this problem now. In contrast, my knowledge system is more comprehensive.
  • In addition, my attitude towards methodology is positive and open,No rejection, no infatuation,Actively try for me.

Agile individuals: Summer sharing

Last year, I reported my own test, but I never read the books I bought. I couldn't help but finally did not take the test.

At the beginning of this year, I met a friend who had a strong self-management ability and insisted on completing what I had planned before doing what I had planned, and the prescribed rest time will consciously go to bed as soon as it reaches...

I am ashamed to see him, so I picked up the book again and told myself that if I couldn't do it, I would be ashamed to become friends with him.

Comment: The reason is actually a deep-seated conversation, injecting emotional factors into the "why", and the motivation will be more persistent.

 

what to do in this exercise

Apply this exercise2: drive your week with three storiesAnd3: drive your day with three storiesEvery story in

 

Refer:How a three letter word can change your life forever

 

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