Economics theory in marriage and love

An economist encounters a train with a young woman in emotional fog. Economics uses the perspective of economics to analyze women's emotions, love, and marriage. His conclusion shows that women may have an epiphany. Economists think: if more young boys and girls can understand the economics of marriage and marriage, they may take less detours in the Process of marriage and marriage.

First, the girl introduced herself: I am 28 years old and I am a classmate with my boyfriend. I graduated from Changchun Institute of Mechanical and Electrical Engineering. I came to Hangzhou with him a few years ago to find a job. I had a great job. I did not do a good job in a table factory. So I encouraged him to take a postgraduate entrance exam. After the examination, I offered him for three years. I didn't expect that he is about to graduate now, and I actually proposed to break up. Later, I figured out that he talked about a girl who just graduated from college. I am really in pain, and my feelings and painstaking efforts have been lost for years ......
1. "I want to ask you, Why are men always so worried ?"

"With the theory of economics, it is easy to explain this problem, that is, the decline of marginal utility. What is declining marginal utility? That is to say, the more you have the same thing, the less it will do for you. For example, if you are hungry, you can eat the first steamed stuffed bun, the second is fragrant, the third is good, the fourth is full, the fifth is not enough, and the sixth is annoying! That is to say, the sixth steamed stuffed bun has zero or even negative effects. Due to the decline in marginal utility, from the perspective of current love, your utility is inferior to that girl. You are the sixth steamed stuffed bun, and that girl is the first steamed stuffed bun. This is why many men have beautiful wives, but they have to go to the teahouse to find their lady's economic principles.
2. "Since the decline in marginal utility is an principle of justice, why are there few women ?"

"To be precise, there should be fewer women who are married! But this does not mean that the decline in marginal utility does not work for married women. In the depth of their hearts, married women may not have the idea of being more handsome, younger, and more male. They generally do not take the "Flower Collection" action, the reason here can be analyzed using the cost-benefit method of economics."

"From our daily observations, we can see that the cost of married men is relatively low compared with that of married women. The maximum cost is a few small dollars, few wives are desperate to divorce because of their husbands. Once a married woman is discovered, the cost is very high. For most men (including those who are excited), divorce is an inevitable choice regardless of how they can't stand it. Divorce women are in the eyes of the world, reputation is certainly not good, and there is a concern for the child, and a burden on the woman. It is precisely because the cost of a married woman's "red apricot Wall" is much higher than the profit, so despite the fact that there is a reduction in marginal utility, they will still make a rational choice not to "red apricot Wall. There is a phenomenon that matches the rationality I have explained. You see, the two men looking for milk and lovers are mostly unmarried girls who are far away from their hometown ."
3. The woman looked angry: "But he is too unmoral! Before graduation, he used my food. Now he is about to graduate, but he broke up with me. Isn't it too cheap? If he broke up three years ago, I am not so sad. Now I am a man of wealth !"

"Economics generally does not study morality, because morality requires the consideration of others. The premise of economics theory is that people are selfish and they are pursuing the maximization of interests. In college, he fell in love with you. At that time, his life was almost carefree. Pursuing passion is the maximization of love interests. In three years of study, there was no passion between you, but at this time, his biggest interest is to get a diploma so that he can get a good job in the future. At this time, if you have a one-size-fits-all break, the economic source will be gone. Now that he is about to graduate, he is full of confidence in his future and is not as eager to wait for money as he was at the beginning. Therefore, being young, beautiful, and passionate has become the biggest benefit of his love affair."
4. "…… I was just thinking that if he could be a graduate student, our family would be better off in the future. I didn't expect it to be empty !"

"This shows that you forgot a basic principle of economics before deciding for him to study. The higher the benefit, the higher the risk! You only saw the benefits for him after his graduation, but did not see the risks after his graduation ."
5. "Is there any way to control risks ?" The woman eagerly asked.

"Wow, where can I get a marriage certificate! A marriage certificate is a credential of the weak person in the marriage. If you have obtained a marriage certificate with him, it would be much easier for him to break up now, or the cost would be much greater. First, the Marriage Law stipulates that a spouse who is at fault in divorce must make economic compensation to the non-faulty party. Second, the husband and wife will face more criticism and psychological pressure from public opinions, his future image in society is a divorced man. Finally, if you have children, divorce means that he will give up his family."
6. "I am afraid it is too late to use one method now !...... All my hopes are pinned on him. I didn't expect them to be completely lost. Now I feel like the sky is falling down !" The woman said with emotion.

"The bigger the hope, the bigger the disappointment, is actually in line with the economics principle. Economics has a formula: Happiness = utility/expectation. You pin all your hopes on him, that is, the expectation is almost infinite, but now he wants to blow it to you. The effect is close to zero, the denominator is infinite, and the molecules are close to zero, of course there will be no happiness. Therefore, people with low expectations for their boyfriends do not suffer much when they break up ."
7. "What should I do now ?"

"How do you feel about this ?" "No pain !" "Then look for him again. Is it possible to save it if it is emotional ?" "He is still hesitating, and his family is also putting pressure on him, but I don't want to force him. If he barely married me, but he was not good to me after marriage, wouldn't it be more painful for me ?" "However, from the perspective of economics, you should still go ." "Why ?" The girl looked confused.

"If you have completed a design for your boss, the reward is 0.1 million yuan, but there are two payment options for you. One is to pay 0.1 million yuan at a time, the other is to pay you 0.15 million yuan, but it will be paid in 15 years. Which one do you choose ?" "I chose the first one ." The woman quickly answered the question. "Why ?" Economists ask back. "Because there will be too many uncertainties in the future, days know whether the money will be worth a few years later. Besides, at that time, the money was not worth any money !"

"You're right !" "The current money is more valuable than the future money. In the same way, the current pain is more painful than the future. You watch many TV movies with similar plots. When you get married, you regret it and cut off the relationship ."
8. "What if I barely get married and he is not good to me after marriage ?"

"Then we go back to the previous principle: the higher the benefit, the higher the risk. If you want to achieve high profits, you must face high risks. There cannot be two full solutions to this problem !"

"I understand, I can't go down when I get a car to Hangzhou. I will go directly to Shanghai to find him ." Women seem to be enlightened