To win oneself is more important than to win others (reprint) __ Music

endure loneliness and become a master
Character determines fate. I am an introvert, quiet, strong in the bones, some people call me "Lonely Master."
My dream as a child was to be a painter. I began to learn painting at the age of 3, when parents went to work, because I was afraid of a person at home insecure, locked me in the home, a lock is a day, and I will quietly stay at home painting, a painting is a whole day. Since then, I have developed the habit of solitude and meditation. So far, my friends are not many. Many friends will inevitably have to socialize, social intercourse will enter noisy public places and all aspects of contact, so that both occupy my time to practice the ball, also does not accord with my personality. I am a person to stay at home reading, watching funny discs, eat snacks, and occasionally accompany mom shopping. When the pressure is especially big, practice yoga, a person meditation quietly, listen to relaxed music decompression, is I enjoy the amateur state of life.
Now think about it, quiet people really fit to do professional billiards, because playing billiards needs to be very focused, attentive thinking, resistance to live, not impatient, psychological quality to be particularly stable ... And these, I have. Now, the ability to live a lonely few people, I was one of them. So say, endure loneliness first, then be master again. A good mentality is a prerequisite for success.

It's more important to win than to win.
not long ago, I was in the United States Open, and Elison Fischer played that game, I will never forget. &NBSP
I've been with the world's number one player two times, and in the past, I have been able to travel light on a winning record. The game to the final 8:8 usually, the situation is advantageous to me, but I did not grasp the good chance. Moreover, the game is home in the United States, and Americans certainly want their players to win, so when I hit the key, the organizers suddenly broadcast the notice, saying that the audience can change the ticket away, and some of the audience began to walk around the scene, this confusion affected my mood, I finally lost the game could have won. &NBSP
After the game, I was very frustrated. I and Elison the world ranked first top player has been to the end, but because of my mistakes, failed to overcome their idols, this is I can not forgive myself. That night, I completely insomnia. When I spoke to my father, I said: "This game, I will remember my whole life." "When I can't sleep, I relive a story: A girl walks in the endless swamp, but she gets lost." The clever girl did not panic, but walked along the footprints of their own way back to the starting place, began to try a new route, finally, she left the vast expanse of the swamp. This story once again spurs me, even if lost a game, as long as can find out the mistakes and deficiencies, always return to the starting point to start again. &NBSP
People can not do everything smoothly, along the way, leaving footprints, to find the road on the good. After this, I thought, maybe, it's much more important for people to win than to win others.

Hardship is to make the pyramid on the tip of the people
My peers said: "Pan Xiaoting can have today's results, in the expected." "Perhaps, they know that I have to pay is not comparable to ordinary people."
I started practicing at my father's arena at the age of 15, and I stayed for 4 years. There is a small room in the arena, a single bed, a wardrobe is all my property. In those 4 years, my father gave me a hard rule, practice 8-12 hours a day, no weekend, only half a week to rest. Even if I am ill, in the morning in the hospital drip, afternoon back to the arena or to complement the day's practice time.
In the past, the family financial constraints, my father accompanied me to Beijing to participate in the competition, we will take the train from Jining Shandong railway station all the way to Beijing. In Beijing, because there is no money, my father and I can only live 18 yuan a night in the basement. The basement was dark and damp, and the door could smell the pungent musty odor. The first time to take the national championship, the prize only 4000 yuan, in order to be able to, my father and I in Quanjude only ordered half of the roast duck. Look at the half a fragrant roast duck, but I cry more than. All this, I have endured. Because, when I began to touch the club when I was 15 years old, my father said, to do the best is to pay more and sacrifice more than others. The father was a national football player, basketball referee, and later changed his profession chef, and was named the Shandong cuisine Special level chef. My father wanted me to be like him, to do things or not to do, to do is to be the pyramid-pointed person. In order to achieve such a goal, people practice 3 hours of the ball, I have to practice for several hours, so as to be able to catch up with others. Therefore, can not eat this bitter, can't stand this sin, give up early, and find another way out; but once you choose this path and want to succeed, hardship becomes the most basic preparation. To see if people have no tolerance of suffering, people with strong tolerance sooner or later can taste the joy of success.

Pan xiaoting, professional billiards player, known as "9 ball Days" by the media. The 16-Year-old won the 1998 "Oulio Cup" national women's 9-ball Open Championship, and then won the 2002 first Asian "King Cup" men and women 9-ball competition champion and Japan's Osaka 35th World Women's 9-ball Open Championship, 2004 World Women's 9-ball, the second runner-up, 2005 All Japan (9 ball) championship women's Championship and other awards.