Our age is afraid

Transferred from Huang Blog now more than 20-year-old people, the most afraid of what? I see so many young people in my office who ask for internships, and what worries them most is looking for a job. If it is a prestigious university graduate, there is no guarantee of hope, but if not, the hope is slim; if it is a boy, there is no guarantee of hope, but if it is a girl, want to halve at least. In fact, the unit is still short of hands, but the lack of "experienced"--but if each employing units say so, where do they get experience? Ordinarily, is about to complete the university study, embark on the society, that should be the most passionate full of ideals and vision of the season, I was at their age, it was like that. Now, from each student, to the parents behind them, it is estimated that everyone in the heart of a big millstone. Now needless to find a job lofty, is to find an internship opportunities are lofty. They may feel that our generation was catching up with the good times. And now the middle-aged, the most afraid of what? -Is afraid of aging. In a middle-aged generation, young people nowadays, even if they can't find a job, what are they afraid of? Youth is the capital, and his future may still be limitless. However, once the human aging, is the possibility of getting smaller, the road is getting narrower. The so-called "sickness and death" is human nature, these truths are not difficult to understand, but when you face, still can not calm. In particular, when you face the old man of your own family in a step-by-step towards the end of life. This process, who will meet one day, but how the past, only know themselves. To be honest, to experience this process, the heart is full of fear. I noticed that there were so many old people on the streets of Beijing. They sit in the street green and play chess, play cards, they squeeze in the supermarket and the bus. They sat downstairs chatting in the courtyard. At the end of their lives, they hide themselves at home or in hospital beds, at the mercy of their families or caregivers, with no dignity, painfully gasping, and slowly draining their lives. 20 years ago, the death of the elderly was 陪床 cared for by their children. I've heard of people who have had this experience, and it's like being ripped off, and today at Beijing's Hospital, there's a team of nursing workers who can afford the basic care if you pay--about 50 to 60 dollars a day. These people, also from the rural areas, work extremely hard, in my encounter with the several, people are also good and reliable. This job is hard to do. These to the late life of patients, most of them are suffering from the pain of irrational, sleep at night, refused to eat during the day, can not take care of themselves, all these problems, do not be able to deal with children, they must be handled well. This is the result of marketization, as long as there is market demand, there will be someone to provide services. Just, the service is difficult, the price must be high, you have to prepare money. Here is a generation of middle-aged fear, is, then, your turn, how to do? Obviously, children can not be relied on, and the community has such a sufficient number of services available, you have prepared such a lot of money? As I have heard, there are someWhite-collar in the beginning for their own pension plan, also began some high-end nursing homes appear, package your old age as comfortable as possible and dignified. The most expensive, can reach 5,000 yuan one months. But what I really see is, in fact, the Chinese people's thrive, is still all dependent on their children, and the general socialization of the endowment, whether high-end or midrange grade, has not yet been established. In this way, people with status can have orderly care, ordinary, only rely on their children to work hard. Sometimes I wonder why the ancient Chinese, especially the emperors, began to build their own tombs since they were young. They are to arrange their own home, the heart is steadfast? When a man is alive, he cannot think of his own destination. We can avoid it for a while, don't want it, but one day we can't face it. In particular, we are a nation without religious belief, a traditional culture of life value so secular.