"Singles Day" Do you want to be alone?

November 11, is an alternative festival for young people, because this day date 4 "1" connected, the young people made it into a "Singles Day." It is understood that "Singles Day" in the last century Http://www.aliyun.com/zixun/aggregation/16333.html >90 was born in Nanjing University, is one of the representative products of campus fun culture. As the internet has been hot, more and more young people have started "singles ' Day" in the past two years.

In the "Singles Day", The feeling of single group is especially many. But the reporter learned that, different people, the heart will have not the same "Bachelor" complex.

The embarrassment of "Singles Day"

"To" Singles Day "again, or a single. "This year has been 32 years old, Yao, 5 years after the end of the last Love." "Ben three", Yao a fear of the festival relatives party, two afraid of Valentine's Day, three afraid of Singles Day.

As soon as the relatives meet, Yao's personal problems become everyone's must talk about the topic. "Have you got a girlfriend?" "When are you going to get married?" "Hurry up and give Grandpa a heavy grandson." "This kind of bombing makes him feel" the top is not smooth. ”

"Singles Day" arrived, despite the absence of family gatherings, but all kinds of voice on the internet is a hint that they are still a bachelor. "It's a very awkward atmosphere," he said. "A few days ago, Yao in the company was asked many times" bachelor, "naked"? Fight for the holidays next year. "Although I know that colleagues are joking, but after teasing each other, Yao still feel very depressed."

He told reporters that a few years ago, but no sense of loss. In the past two years, as the "Singles Day" was fried by the internet, this day became a misery day for him. Because all people are reminding you to be a bachelor, some people will compare you with their peers, say how family happiness, as if married glorious, single shameful general.

"In fact, a man 32 years old without a girlfriend did not get married is also very normal Ah, I do not insist." Let it be, tube him next year is not a bachelor. "Yao said. He even thinks that the online "Singles Day", Valentine's Day, is like a ferment, urging many young people who are not clear about their demands, but such practices are irresponsible. After all, two people come together, in addition to talk about feelings, but also to speak of responsibility, not to "strip naked" on the right.

The happiness of "Singles Day"

26-Year-old Bride Xiao Huang, tomorrow put on the wedding dress. With a friend's joke, she is "Singles Day" before the formal "naked".

After deciding to end the 5-year love run, she and her fiance chose November 11 to marry. "Singles Day" became their wedding anniversary.

It is understood that every year November 11, are many new people "pull skylight" day. Someone is to set the wine banquet, there are people to do registration procedures. Last year November 11, because of a rare encounter of 6 "1", by many young people gave "life, Love Only One" of the romantic significance, so the choice of marriage in this day more new.

From this point of view, although many bachelors in this day will feel lonely especially sad, but many already rambled people, but decided to take this opportunity to romantic one.

Xiao Huang told reporters that the reason to choose this day, is to feel good remember and special. As a man, she and her husband insisted on not accepting the family's request to "see the day" and decided to hold the wedding on November 11.

The reporter learned that and the yellow couple have the same idea of young people. Our city has to undertake the wedding banquet ability of the major hotel hotels, this evening have been early to be scheduled to meet the wedding.

Diana, Miss Chen, will go to a girlfriend's wedding tonight as a bridesmaid. "So nervous, I don't know what happens when I get married?" She had a little shyness on her face, and she couldn't hide her longing for love. Ms. Chen said that when she knew her girlfriend had set a date for her wedding and invited her to be a bridesmaid, she was pleasantly surprised to find her friend very intimate. In this way, I am not a bachelor this year, at least there is a best man can be around the right AH. "said Miss Chen jokingly.

Miss Chen told reporters that before, friends joked that at the wedding will meet a lot of new friends, the Word of Destiny, "Singles Day" may also contribute to a marriage.

The memory of "Singles Day"

Reporter in the interview process, found an interesting phenomenon: many singles want to "naked", but some married people to the age of singles show a great memory and yearning. Once upon a time, they were too far away to be a bachelor.

This year's 29-Year-old Fu Yi (a pseudonym) himself has two battlefield. One is the unit, the other is the home. She works as an office clerk in a unit and arranges all the work every day to work. After work, have to rush to buy food first, then rush to mother-in-law to the 2-year-old son to take home. Then cook, wash the dishes, bathe the children, coax the children to sleep ... When it comes down, it's late at night. Compared to the present life, Fu Yi think that just graduated from the day of single, it is paradise.

"To work on time, to feed themselves, to eat and drink, nothing to worry about." Fu Yi said, look now, every day, like nightmares, the spirit of the daily tense tightly, to do their work well, back home to serve a small. Friends have a party about several times, always have no time to participate.

Speaking of which, Fu Yi admits that he even regretted getting married too early. When she and her husband fell in love, he gave her a lot of free space, "like a bachelor, happy very, often and sisters out crazy play." But marriage, especially after the birth of the child, life has undergone tremendous changes, often let Fu Yi feel breathless.

"I envy The Bachelor." "The character eyebrow heartily said, she sees nearby many people are diligently looking for the object, urges the wedding date, attempts completely to break out the Bachelor this group, always feels the pity." These people now have the status quo, it is the envy of the eyebrow is jealous but not come. And Fu Yi believes that these young men are frantically chasing, may be their current life. Although this is a necessary process of life, but Fu Yi told reporters, "If I had someone to tell me when I was young, perhaps I will choose to" light "a few years." ”

And Fu Yi has the same feeling, and married 8 years Mr. Pei. He told reporters that a man to middle age, the survival of the pressure is particularly high, both in the work of a higher level, but also the parents wife and children. See the unit of unmarried young too carefree, he don't mention how envious.

"Singles Day" Carnival

It is precisely because too many single young men and women are eager to get out of this group early, they will take part in social activities, catalyzed by the festival atmosphere of "Singles Day", to try to solve their personal problems earlier by expanding their social circle.

Countless kinds of communicative activities, it constitutes a "Singles Day" Carnival mode.

As early as one weeks ago, a reporter in the city of a portal site, found a number of matchmaking activities issued to solicit posts, to "hundred excellent single" strip Off the "grand event" as the name, summoned single young men and women to participate in the "Singles Day" Night 8-minute date.

In other friends section, the reporter also discovered by the Netizen individual initiates "the single friend together had" Singles Day "the K song activity." However, this group features obvious activity information appears not to be welcomed, only a few netizens commented, and did not disclose the willingness to participate together.

Citizen Wu told reporters that some of their friends are planning to get together tonight, just as a few singles will catch up with the name. But the invitations on the Internet, because the unknown and the safety factor is not high, they will not be invited. Xiao Wu said, bachelor at most is also a kind of ridicule, if really care about their own is a bachelor, regardless of the consequences of "naked", may bring more damage to their own.