The internet is not a living refuge

The city of Chu days Xiaoyangjiang City "Top net Worm" Wang Gang, university students plunge into internet cafes, 10 years do not come home now seriously ill (May 10, 2011, "The City of Chu Days").　　In recent years because of "internet addiction" interrupted studies, because "internet addiction" hurt the body, because of "internet addiction" to the family, or even because of "internet addiction" loss of life case has more than once appeared in the public. Frankly speaking, the network game is not a scourge, the game itself can be a life of transfers. Scientifically speaking, the standard for determining whether a person has internet addiction is not the length of time they spend online, but the purpose of the Internet.　　Some American psychologists have suggested that a normal network user (who differs from an internet addict), regardless of how long they spend online every day, will not ignore their professional responsibilities and ignore family and social activities in order to surf the Internet. In contrast, although the world's largest online gaming company in the United States, but the United States, the phenomenon of online addiction is not serious. There are many reasons, such as our internet café popular, teenagers are generally lack of independent ability, poor self-control, internet cafes become a comfortable home for young people, some black internet cafes even condone minors overnight access to the Internet, while the United States city almost no internet cafes, minors are basically at home on the Internet, so parents to children online time can be constrained.　　In addition, parents pay attention to guide children to the Internet, such as to learn useful information, rather than through preaching, scolding and other means to prevent children from surfing the internet, to avoid arousing children's rebellious mentality. In school education, due to the single and utilitarian education, many of our children have been trained to test machines, and thus the high and low.　　Some students in the test results after the defeat, the growth potential was completely denied, life is full of frustration, eager to escape from reality, choose to seek solace in the virtual space, in the self anesthesia to squander youth. Real happiness is the cure for addiction. On the one hand, society should strengthen the management of Internet cafes and games, through the online game grading for the healthy growth of young people to create a good environment, while parents, schools pay attention to the children's achievements, but also should pay attention to cultivate their hobbies, enrich the children's amateur life, the interests of young people to attract real life,　　Let them use more hands-on experience through the "growth of trouble", learn to find the fun of life, the initiative to pursue the realization of self-worth. A momentary setback is not our excuse to escape life, life is not a game, lost can not be repeated to those lost children, we apply more understanding and love, to help them regain the courage and confidence in life.