30 things done by successful people (4-6)

Fourth important thing: Count 30 times before losing your temper

Each time you lose your temper, you should first count 30 times so that you can calm down and then meditate. "anger is to punish yourself with others' mistakes."

The reason for Losing temper is that it is completely impulsive. Losing temper often stems from our anger and anger, which often leads to irrational mistakes and stupid things. Angry things make what we say mean, don't worry about others' feelings, do things too much, hurt others' hearts. It will mess up things and harden interpersonal relationships.

The secret to success: Actually, I don't have any special secrets. The reason why my business goes well is that I know how to speak less and make less decisions when I am angry.

Zen Road:

When two people are angry, the distance between their hearts is very long. to conceal the distance, the other person must shout, but while shouting, you will get angry again. If you get angry, you will get farther away. If you get farther away, you will have to shout more ....

When two people fall in love with each other, the opposite is true. Not only do they not shout, but they all whisper. Why? Because their hearts are very close and there is almost no distance between them, the two people who fall in love usually speak in a whisper, and the love in their hearts is so deeper that they don't need words at all. They just need their eyes to express their feelings, at that time, there was no so-called distance between the heart and the heart ....

Fifth important thing: pick the most difficult task to do when you are not sure.

The most difficult things have been done, and there are still things that can't be done, the hardest things have been done, and there are other places that can't be done, the hardest and the hardest things have been done, the meaning of life is richer.

A task is difficult and difficult. The key is how you treat it. The difficulty is the spring, and it is strong if you are weak.

In the face of difficulties, there are always two attitudes: retreat from the difficulties and begin from the difficulties.

There is no difficulty in this world. Only the heart that is trapped by "difficulties", those seemingly insurmountable mountains are all our own ways to block our own path, as long as we are brave enough to break through this obstacle and have the confidence to win, we can succeed step by step.

Sixth important thing: Specify the completion date for each task

If you have a whole day to do a job, you will spend one day doing it, and if you only have one hour to do the job, you can finish it more quickly and effectively within an hour.

Procrastination is an outstanding manifestation of the weakness of human nature. Each person may experience different degrees of procrastination.

The Parkinson's Law holds that the importance and complexity of a task are closely related to the time assigned to complete the task. This is the magic of the final time limit that is constantly approaching, because the energy is more concentrated, final products made within a short period of time are generally no worse than products made within a long period of time, or even higher quality.

Make sure you have a deadline at hand:

Psychological experts pointed out: under pressure, people's performance will only deteriorate, but will not become better

Only effective restrictions on high-load workloads will bring excellent efficiency and time freedom.

To complete a large task, it is best to break it into several smaller tasks and set the deadline for each small task, ensure that there is always a binding deadline.