Correct family education helps to cultivate children with high comprehensive quality

All parents are strongly advised to take a look! Especially parents who are under 13 years old!

Such a teacher said true teacher, he took a 55-person class, 37 people into Tsinghua University, Peking University, 10 people into the universities of Cambridge, Yale, Oxford and other world famous universities and received full scholarship, other examinations into the Fudan University, Nankai and other universities. Not only that, the school football champion, the school Games Championship, the school web Design Competition championship, such as 6 titles, are taken away by this class, music wit, debating master, computer wizards, Taekwondo Masters in this class abound. He was also a very successful father, and his daughter was admitted to Peking University with excellent results. He is the national excellent teacher, the high school math teacher King Gold War.

Mr. Wang summed up the education of 33: Spend about three minutes, willing to read carefully every parent, careful taste, will benefit.


1. The main factor affecting children's performance is not the school, but the family.

2. If there is a problem with family education, the child may be in school more difficult, the child will likely become the school "problem Child".

3. Children with good grades, mothers usually have a plan and a neat person. The more serious the father, the more organized, the more polite, the better the children's performance.

4. Poverty is an important educational resource, but not the poorer the better the child's growth. Parents, need to provide children with basic cultural information, do not let children into the cherish of inferiority abyss.

5. Affluence is another higher level of educational resources, and the Western experience is that "nurturing an aristocrat requires three generations of effort." "Class is hereditary." "However, higher education resources require more advanced educational skills, and if there is no more advanced educational skills, wealthy families will bring disaster to the growth of their children."

6. Don't be a parent with knowledge and culture. Some people are highly educated, but not necessarily culturally. If parents do not understand life, do not know how to treat others, and even do not know how to treat their children, no matter how high academic level he has, he is also a person without culture.

7. Parents can take their children as the center of the world, but don't forget that their parents also have to live independently. Parents often interfere with their children's growth in the name of love if their parents are completely distracted by their children's life-like themes. Sometimes, not children can not leave their parents, but parents can not leave the child.

8. Parents need to take responsibility for educating their children, but do not completely abolish their leisure life by educating them. "No sense of responsibility hurts others, too much responsibility to hurt yourself." "(Wu Jiaxiang language)

9. If a child cries and the parents hurriedly pick up the child, then the child will use the characteristics of parents often entangled parents, put forward more requirements. Therefore, the child cries, do not worry about the child to hold up, parents better let oneself have the thing to do, let the child see oneself action to work quickly.

10. Marital relationships affect the child's character. If a man does not respect his wife, then his son learns not to respect his female classmates at school. If a woman does not respect her husband, her daughter learns to despise her male classmates at school.

11. Education is the cultivation of human spirit appearance. Parents and teachers of the mission is to let the child gradually responsible for their own mental appearance, remove the various contamination may be contaminated, cultivate the spirit of the human body "seeds", so that people can breathe the high mountain air, so that people can be elated.

12. Cultured parents are "Voltaire", "I disagree with you, but I defend to the point of your right to speak." They begin to reason with their children from the day they are born, patiently soliciting their children's opinions. Don't expect children to be taught to obey. The result of killing chickens is: Monkeys have learned to kill chickens.

13. Make your child a passionate and sensible person. "No passion, no great things can start, no reason, no feat can be a good ending." ”

14. Make your child a cultured person, educated from punctuality, queuing, not speaking loudly in public, and not easily angry.

15. Be honest. If your child is more honest, please don't laugh at his weakness. The person who likes to occupy Petty, often eats big loss, because he is hated by others. Those who are willing to eat a small loss will be very cheap in the future because he is liked.

16. The vitality of the body can bring spiritual vitality. The body is good person, the character sunshine. A person who is not well, is hesitant, evasive, and hesitant to speak.

17. Do not assume that the child is 1-6 years old just a long body age. If parents let their children at the age of 1-6 at the grandparents or grandparent, and when the child is 6 years old when the parents brought back the children to primary school, then the child in primary school either become silent silence, or become lawless troublemakers.

18. Often do three things with your child: one is to dine with your child, and the other is to invite your child to repair toys, furniture, or clothing, and occasionally invite your child to help solve the difficulties in your work. The third is to tell the children stories and invite them to tell their own stories.

19. If there is no particular difficulty, parents are best to go home and dine with their children every day. The common values of the family are set up during the whole family's meal around a table.

20. Tell a story to the child and invite the child to tell the story, let the child begin to listen to the story to establish reading and writing habits, let the child learn to read independently as soon as possible to develop lifelong reading habits. "As long as the people who are still reading, will not be completely degenerate, the person who is completely degenerate is not reading." "Parents who never tell stories to children are irresponsible parents."

21. Children's growth has three key periods: the first is around 3, the second is around 9, and the third is around 13 years of age. If you miss the critical period of growth, endless.

22. Not "30", but "three years old". When children are three years old, they must establish their courage and habit of self-reliance. Whatever you can do, you must do it yourself, whatever you should do, when you try to do it.

23. If your child likes Frost's verse when he is 13 years old: "Two roads diverged in the woods, I chose to leave the less one", it is normal, do not worry, he may choose to walk the more that one.
25. It is necessary for parents to give their children reason, but when it comes to the children of the age of 13, it is more important to pay attention to the posture of their speech than to reason. Otherwise, the child will be disgusted and rebellious. The child will say, "You are right, but the way you speak is very unpleasant."

26. The Secret of heart is the sign of human growth and maturity. If the child has something on his mind, he doesn't want to tell you, so don't force the child to tell his secret.

27. Around the age of 3, it is advisable to have a laissez-faire parent who is inactive. Around the age of 9, it is best to have an active and authoritative parent. It's better to have a negative, democratic parent around the age of 13. Effective education is the first strict after the loose, ineffective education is the first loose after strict.

28. Pay attention to your child's academic performance, but don't be too concerned about his position. You need to be wary of children who are always the first to learn. Some children learn good grades, character, some children study well, but the character is selfish, lack of sympathy, no life.

29. You must let your child learn to socialize with others and accept small partners happily. "If parents are dissatisfied with their neighbours, are very picky about their children's partners, or don't let their children make friends with them, making them feel as if they're different from others, it's hard for these kids to get along with anyone when they grow up."

30. The child's growth needs a companion, let the child have their own friends, but do not have too messy partners, in the child did not form mature rationality and judgment, the child is wary of the bad habits of their peers.

31. Let your child establish a healthy aesthetic as soon as possible. Promising men are sure to like healthy women. Don't let the child's aesthetics fall into the low, morbid. Do not think that the small, sick, is good. Do not think that strong, it is bad. Do not think that small sparrows, small sheep, puppies are lovely, do not think that lions, tigers, wolves are bad. Don't think that wolves eat men, but wolves eat less than him.

32. "Catcher in the Rye" has contributed a word to the world: watch. Education is not a pipe, nor a matter of. Between the tube and whatever, there is a word called "watch".

33. Tell your child: the child who listens to the teacher occasionally scores well, the child who is conscientious in self-study will always score well.

Correct family education helps to cultivate children with high comprehensive quality