Rational Education ~ It is worth learning ~

Homework:

1. Do homework after school: set the time, and he will not be allowed to do it by the time. He said that he could not finish his homework and he would be fined by the teacher tomorrow, but I told him that he could not take the necessary time to do anything. The next day, when he got up early in the morning, I was not allowed to let him cry and go to school. After that, I graduated from high school,All of them are the first to complete the job first.

2. The teacher assigns homework and asks the parent to check the signature:Let the child check it by himself. Just click it and I will sign it.Ask when signing: You are correct after checking. He is sure to say yes, and you will sign it. You should not tell him the wrong question clearly, so that he will have a Red Cross in his homework tomorrow. In the face of this situation, you just need to say why you didn't check it out yesterday. Don't be too strict. Don't let the children worry that when you hit him, everything is based on reasoning, in this way, he will be more serious next time.

In the first year, parents should talk with their children to understand that learning is a basic stage for their own lives,Learning is not for parents. It has nothing to do with parents. Parents have the responsibility of parents.To let the child check his/her, try to let him manage himself,Let him learn to take responsibility for his own life.For example, if the child came home the next day after the parents' signatures, he said, "Well, if you haven't checked out a wrong question, then the parent will be speechless.

3. About Dictation:My solution is to ask him to do it by means of silent writing.I said that you could write all the new words that you have learned in silence. It doesn't prove that you are great! He put the Chinese document in front of me. I said I 'd take the book away, and Mom believes you won't read it.

4. Complaints from teachers and homework (for criticism): My son was also fined when he was in the first year of elementary school. I took him out of school, waited for him to finish his homework, and listened to the teacher's questions about how he was not serious about his son's class and how he happened to his classmates. When I got home, I asked the situation carefully. I didn't criticize him because I was not a problem. I also spoke to him in detail about how to pay attention and correct the situation. It is very important that a parent should use the principle to relieve the negative emotions that may occur to the teacher.The primary challenge to children's self-confidence lies in parents and teachers. If the child is scolded at school, the mother should understand the matter that night, resolve the child's emotions, and patch his self-confidence. A person's life self-confidence is very important.

About Meals:

1. It doesn't matter if you eat less. If you don't chase him, you just need to eat it. A bowl is a basic amount. You do not need to eat too much, 7 points full, enough to consume energy. In this way, the cerebral cortex has many gullies, which is conducive to memory and so on.

2. Try to cultivate children to eat less meat, eat more vegetables and fruits (stick to the best), and do not let the body accumulate fat and affect the brain. Take snacks and replace them with fruits. You must eat apples and bananas every day. Both of them are related to intelligence and play an important role.

A friend of mine from a doctor told me never to force a child to eat. Children have several growth periods, especially in adolescence. The amount of meals naturally increases. For example, if you open your appetite early, his appetite will pass through during the development period, and you will not allow him to eat less during the period of adolescence.

Early education is really important:

1. When I start talking to a child, I will ask for his advice on everything I do. Do something wrong (including beating something), ask him to tell him what happened before and after the incident, why did it happen, and I won't scold him or beat him. After the lecture, point out the problem and correct the problem, note later.

2. Are you not able to sleep well at night because you are not focused? Are you too full? Do you not understand the course? Find out the cause and find a solution to the problem.

3. If you want to give him time to play, it is also a brain. Parents and children have prepared a timetable for sleeping after the course,Everything is on a schedule.

4. I have read a post about children's education. I 'd like to share with you:

First, conduct early education, focus on developing thinking and intelligence, and do not force him to learn anything.

Second, be kind to all life and teach him to think differently.

Third, teach him how to set an example of water when doing things, learn how to be soft, and make a detour in case of difficulties.

5. Cultivate your child's mind: I told him that others are not obligated to do hello. The hearts of the people are uneven, such as mountains, Valley, plain. If others are nice to you, you should be grateful to him. If you are not nice to you, it is his action and it is normal. There is no absolute fairness in everything. The greater the amount of heart, the more energy you can obtain. You do not need to get more energy. The amount of heart and compassion are very important, and play a decisive role in the children's future life and circumstances.

Children's education0Start from age:

I. pre-pregnancy parents:

First of all, people's health is weak and alkaline. Both parents need to take good care of their bodies. It is best not to smoke and drink. Food should be partial to vegetables and fruits. The man needs to add vitamin E every day, and the woman needs to take some folic acid every day. Meat is an acidic food and should be reduced as much as possible. After adjusting your body for three months, you can naturally ask for a child. In this way, you can ensure that the child has a healthy constitution and is less likely to get sick after being born.

Ii. After pregnancy:

1. Prenatal education in the mother is very important. Take some time to read books and listen to music every day, so you can relax.

2. In terms of food: Do not eat fat meat, biscuits and other sweets, and try not to make the fetus grow too large in the mother. During pregnancy (5 months later), you can open a flash of cake and use it to steamed eggs. Notes for other diets are generally understood.

Try not to buy a living thing to eat, and eat three clean meats: not killing, not killing for you, not seeing and killing. For example, if a fish is killed for an hour, its protein is easily absorbed by the human body. It is not called delicious food when it is killed. It is just a kind of eating habit. Try to buy a ready-made kitchen. Do not make the kitchen in your house a place where the soul gathers. This is also done to give birth and health to children.

3. What about brain development after a child is given:

1. Breastfeeding is very important and the best and safest food. To ensure the child's health, and reduce the mother's chance of breast cancer after the age of 40. When you have just given birth to a child, it is possible that the breast may become inaccessible. It is not necessary to give a child milk for the so-called body.

2. I started my early education more than 20 days later. When the child wakes up, I will let the child's little hand touch various items at hand. As we all know, a child's brain develops rapidly from birth to the age of 1. At the age of 1-3, it is another stage. At this stage of life, it is the most important time for mothers to make effort.

When I was half a year old, I asked his little hand to touch and explain what the item was and what it was useful. Remember not to say "car, meal" to the baby from the age of 0 to 3, A car, a jeep, a tractor, a porridge, a steamed bread, and so on can absorb a lot of words.

When a child sleeps for less than a long time in the past 10 months, and wakes up more often, he can find the whole set of "why? All kinds of encyclopedias, 365 nights, and other "books with pictures and texts. The requirements of finger movement are illustrated in the text below to stimulate the child's cerebral cortex development.

By some time, when you talk to him about this book, he will reach out and turn over the next page, which means he has an impression of this page and wants something new. For example, we take children to nature (I take children to parks every week, and there are mountains and water ), all kinds of plants, branches, grass, ant financial, and snails are the best items for children to observe.

The above is to let the children touch the world through their hands. during the rest of the time when the adults are not idle, they will be given a story tape or beautiful and dazzling cartoons, good thinking for children's image. At the same time, Taobao has Subtitles such as dianchao and simple things in Chinese Studies. It is shown to children every day, so that he will be exposed to many words. For example, the words and words he sees will be moved slowly, and they will be applied to other places virtually.

Listen to the story tapes before going to bed, arrange subtitles for the disc during the day, and talk about encyclopedia knowledge Atlas (many types of bookstores) and idiom story books. The above will stimulate the child's left brain and image thinking. The next step is to develop the right brain for the child. The right brain is the function of the left hand. You can play games with your child in your free time every day, throw a small ball with your left hand, and pick up the ball with your left hand. You can set a number for him in your mind.

In addition, we need to add a brain exercise: drawing pictures, we do not require children to draw very similar objects. As long as you can draw lines by hand, it will be useful for the brain. I'm afraid that I don't know how to educate my children. Why isn't the car painted by a child look like it? At this point, you need to correct the car that is transformed by Baobao. In education at the age of 0-3, encouragement cannot be used to strike a fight. Instead of asking him to draw more similar physical objects, he needs to exercise the gap between the cerebral cortex.

To a certain extent, the children have a strong desire for knowledge. What an adult should do is satisfy him and find books for him.

Score:

I did not score much in the exam, but I gave my opinion. My principle is that learning is his own business.I only told him to analyze the cause of the wrong question in the paper.Whether you do not understand or are careless. It is good to correct yourself. He won't ask him the number of students in the class (this was the case until he graduated from high school ).

In mathematics, mistakes are always very simple. Adults and Children will regret to say, "It's a pity! If you are careful, the full score is displayed. "I have also encountered this situation. When I saw a 99-point exam, I thought about how to make him careless and careless? When I was in the third grade, the opportunity came from the pain of others. I had a unit to build a house. When I got half done, the house collapsed. I took him to the site for opportunity education. In terms of mechanics and other methods, the calculation error may lead to a difference in the base-foot support house, and the point where the calculation is missing will sink; from the perspective of building materials, the whole house is a dangerous building if there are fewer cement labels, smaller steel bars, and a little brick and tile quality. To give him a deep understanding, I said that if your mental carelessness caused the death of others (six deaths in the accident), how can we compensate for the loss of life? How can we compensate for tens of millions of economic losses? From the full score of the college entrance examination, this opportunity has been successfully educated.

Case:Hello, I have written several characteristics of my 8-year-old third-grade son. Could you help me to analyze them?

Disadvantages:

1. inattention. The teacher reflected that he was easy to go to class and always seemed to listen to others, but he was not willing to raise his hand even if he could answer questions accurately and refuse to cooperate.

2. Drag and Drop homework. Every day, I have to leave my homework in my office before school or even after school. I do this almost every day, but I am very quick at home (after I finish watching TV, I can go out and play ). His actions are also slow, and every decomposition action is full of procrastination.

3. The mind develops too late, which is commonly known as "heartless. If you criticize and praise him, he will never do anything. The class teacher reported that he had not encountered such a difficult student after six years of teaching.

Advantages:

1. Good grades, especially in English and mathematics. Sometimes the Chinese language is too late to complete the paper due to slow reasons. When I encounter a big test, I have to keep telling me for a week to make him feel at ease, the score is also high. The teacher also concluded: slow, high accuracy.

2. I like hand painting, plasticine, origami, and assembling toys.

3. love reading and strong memory. You can remember all the words you have read. In kindergarten, you can read a large number of books independently, which is similar to that in Grade 2.

Interactive communication:

It's okay to take a half-beat. It means your son is calm. For this reason, you can list some events that may cause harm due to slow down. In case of critically ill patients, you need to rescue them in time. If you miss the best rescue time for three minutes because you are slow down, can you compensate for the lost life? Just because you missed the three minutes of being slow (similar to various opportunities in life) and passed your own wonderful life, you will feel a lot of regret for yourself. Fast and slow.

You need to know what he is doing and why he does not do his homework in the classroom, and what you want to do based on his answers. You told him that the class assignments were completed first, and the students were still doing it. You should have a sense of superiority and happiness in your heart. Would you like to give it a try? Let him first find a classmate as the goal. The teacher will arrange homework to see who will finish it first. At the beginning, he may not be able to catch up with others. You have to show him how many times he can catch up. If he catches up with him, you have to reward him (but not first ).

The disadvantage 1 you mentioned is normal. According to the advantage 3 you mentioned, he has a strong ability to absorb knowledge, and a teacher who does not understand it will be able to get through at all, when new knowledge is available, he may just look up at the teacher. I also encountered such a situation. When I got back home, I asked him, I said that other students could attend lectures seriously. Why are you immersed in your pencil and not watching the teacher seriously? He replied to me: in class, he listened to the teacher, not the teacher. In my opinion, no matter what the form is, as long as he can understand it, I will not criticize him in the future.

Disadvantage 3: Based on the three advantages you have mentioned, your son will not be late in mental development, will not care about people, will not look at the teacher's face, is not heartless, it just shows that your son is very open-minded and doesn't play with his or her mind! His heart is open, that is, open-minded. This is what many parents cannot ask. What do you criticize him? It's just catering to the secular point of view! Naturally, you should not suppress it too much.

Suggestion:

1. Treat students with good or bad grades equally. When anyone asks him something they don't understand, he must do his best to explain it to him. Willing to give up and give it to others. The larger the amount of heart, the more you get. If you want your son to see that every student is very pleasing to the eye, then he will be happy. Now there is a phenomenon in which you are afraid to tell your classmates what you know. If you learn to surpass yourself, your mind is not open but close. This is to narrow your path.

2. Be sure to respect the teacher. Whether or not the teacher is criticizing you, the starting point is the same as that of the mother, it is for you to become useful to society. There is a teacher's grace in the grace of a person's life.

It is impossible for a class to fully focus on listening. If you understand it, you will relax. I often speak with my colleagues in class. You should first ask her who caused the problem. If you are a classmate, you should not criticize her. If she is the first speaker, you will ask what she is talking about. There is nothing to do with learning in class. If there is nothing to do, point out something wrong with her.

There are three serious mistakes: ① speaking in class is not respectful to the teacher. ② The teacher had a hard time explaining the knowledge to more than 60 students in the class. However, when you spoke to your deskmate, you did not attend the class seriously. You did not hear the content of the teacher's lecture, let down the hard work of teachers. ③ Impact on students' lectures. What rights do you have to influence others' earnest learning? Why didn't you ask your classmates after class and let yourself carry your mistakes? After the lecture, ask her to give a small bench and think carefully about what Mommy criticized. How should you become a student? What should I do in the future? I figured it out to tell Mommy.

3. parents and students say that teachers do not teach well. I taught my son like this: it's not a problem the teacher taught. It's just that the teacher's teaching method is not suitable for you. There are 60-70 students in the class. The teacher is not facing you, but cannot take care of you alone. Only you can adjust yourself, find out the cause, and adapt to the teacher's approach. This refers to the cultivation of morality, which can be used for life.

4. about reading books ahead of time, when the mother wants to learn the spirit of Water learning, he will go forward in case of difficulties.

You hold your son in your arms (to make him feel that the topic has a weight), and tell him the real environment of the society. The job situation is grim, and Mommy, the working father, cannot find it for you, you are solely responsible for finding a job in the future. There are many kinds of jobs, and the work environment is very different, such... (For example, if you want to have a good job or a good life in the future, it depends on the degree of hard work in the middle school. In your life, if you want to grow up and live your ideal life, baby will cherish you three years of junior high school. You are new to the first day of the first day. in the twinkling of an eye, you are new to the second day. When you learn something carefully, the first day of the second day is the third day, and the time will never come back again. (Same for High School)

Now, you need to speak to your son in a gentle tone. All the students in the textbooks are learning and everyone knows the same thing. If you know more about yourself than other students, you will be very proud in your heart. At the same time, you will also envy you. At that time, you will not be able to catch up with you. You know more than other students. It's easy to learn. Are you saying that your mom is right? At this point, you need to find a way to arouse his arrogance and self-confidence. You must note that you can only talk about it in this way, instead of calling him to read and learn.

In addition, we can't say anything about Chinese. In addition to taking classes seriously, understanding the types of compositions, and reading more books, I cannot say that. Finally, if you put the above 123 into practice and let him take advantage of his subjective initiative, the so-called learning task will easily pass.

You can add a magazine "sci-fi world" to your son. Some of his physics works. the imagination of Tian Fang Night tan and Tian ma can open his mind. I have set my son to graduate from high school at the age of 5. I don't know how you ordered your son. I have about 7 books each year. A senior teacher once told me that this book is worth having a knowledge point in a magazine absorbed by children. Let it go, relax, and be happy and healthy! This is a good state of life, but most people cannot do it. You need to learn a good attitude. Magazines: sci-fi world, mysteries, readers, youth abstracts, interesting science, and military world

5. Ask if you are not familiar with it.

This sentence is really important at the beginning and after the middle school and after the High School. The knowledge learned on the day should be understood, so there is no burden for learning. If you do not know how to deal with it in time, it will take more time and be tired. You and your students share the same learning experience. In the future, when you open the score gap, you can ask the teacher as soon as possible. The teacher prefers to ask the teacher or students if they do not understand the course.

6. adolescence.

Your son entered adolescence on his first day. When you find that you are impatient with him, you cannot be arrogant in front of him. Do not force him to do anything. You must give priority to his will and respect his choice of problems. At this time, children are most likely to reverse the idea of adults. if adults are too strong, the children will be in conflict, forming a habit of hurting children. During my son's adolescence, we don't know what time to go to bed every night. We all go to bed first and do not take the initiative to talk to him. When the second day and next semester, my son will take the initiative to talk to us about games and school affairs, and we will know that my son has been through adolescence.

Left hand throwing things and playing cards-training the right brain, instant concentration, and quick reflection. Two cards: draw two cards each time and shake them in front of him. Let him add the two cards. Practice once a day. After two months of training, you can quickly add and subtract once a day. Do not always ask him to study and train with him.

In addition to taking classes seriously, understanding the types of compositions, and reading more books, I cannot say anything about Chinese. Finally, if you put the above 123 into practice and let him exert his subjective initiative, the so-called learning task will easily pass through. # T * x $ B3 A7 W +? "H # G
Magazine: I can't remember what I ordered at the time, because my son gave away his books after the college entrance examination. Sci-fi world, mysteries, readers, youth abstracts, interesting science, and military world
Interactive communication:
1. It is impossible for a class to fully focus on lectures. If you understand the lesson, you will relax. I often talk to my colleagues in the class. You should first ask her who caused the problem. If she is a classmate, you should not criticize her. If she is the first speaker, you will ask her what she is talking about on the same day, it is related to class and study, and it is irrelevant to point out to her that it is wrong.
There are three serious mistakes: 1. Speaking in class is not respectful to the teacher. 2. The teacher has learned the knowledge for more than 60 students in your class and has worked hard to explain it. However, when you speak with your deskmate, you didn't listen to the lectures carefully. You didn't hear what the teacher said, and failed the hard work of the Teacher. 3. It also affected the students. What rights do you have to influence others to study hard? Why didn't you ask your classmates after class and let yourself carry your mistakes? After the lecture, ask her to give a small bench and think carefully about what Mommy criticized, right? How should you become a student? What should I do in the future? I figured it out to tell Mommy. She will come to give you a clear picture later. I am wrong. If you say no, you still need to think about why you are wrong. Think about it for another 10 minutes.
2. When your daughter is in the second grade this year, it's time to train her. You want her to use his left hand to play things, train his right brain, and let him play cards, parents and children play card addition once a day and draw two cards to quickly shake in front of him. Let him quickly say the number he has added, and insist on performing addition and subtraction once in the third grade, it will be no longer needed after the fifth grade. Exercise instant attention, quick reflection, and mental computing. Painting is to train the image thinking to keep up. Ask the teacher if you do not understand.
Second, it is very important to do well. It should be easy to go to junior high school and high school.

Rational Education ~ It is worth learning ~