18 experiences of women marrying

1. Most of all, girls still have to work hard to make http://www.aliyun.com/zixun/aggregation/7491.html "> oneself become more outstanding, not only ability but also appearance."

Taiwan's famous advertising word: A serious woman is the most beautiful. Everyone has the choice of how to live, but must be serious, to themselves, to work, to life, such a woman, even if not particularly beautiful, there is a self-confidence calmly beauty, only this beauty can and time confrontation, will be good men's appreciation. He who plays with his life plays with men.

Perhaps most people are not very good at work, can clean up their own neat and refreshing, but also a great advantage. There is no doubt that the real man is the first to judge by appearances, not so men are only love the most beautiful woman, for the clean and refreshing woman, most men still have good feelings.

2. The good man, has the request to oneself, does not have the request to the woman.

All of his work to muddle along, but his girlfriend has many requirements of men, or a respectful distance is better. This kind of man, after marriage becomes the most likely to poison the tongue male. It is not a good marriage for a man who is married to a sister, who is at least required to be respected by her own husband and who thinks he has the right to drink to his wife.

3. The most important thing is to see character and personality.

Similar personality, a similar outlook on life, money is the best guarantee of marital life. Different personality, two people on weekdays, even if the world is recognized as couple, born a pair, is not married, after all, you spend most of your life with him, Lengnuanzizhi.

4. From the beginning, said not worthy of your man, he will never be worthy of you.

For some excellent girls, always meet some seemingly potential stocks of men, you change for him, pay all, he said, you are too good for him, his (education, money, ability, status, appearance, etc.) not worthy of you. I have a lot of sisters around the example proves that no self-confidence, can only rely on your condescend to contact the man, later on you will not be good, your excellent will only make him more inferior.

5. Before you entrust your life, look at his family.

Not to see how much money his family has, is to see his family is not family harmony, care and comity. A family of men beat women, everyone still indifferent, pretending not to see the family, will not care about you anyway. Every family has shortcomings, to ask his boyfriend's attitude, blindly loyalty men, the heart of his wife's respect is limited.

6. To their own tight, the girlfriend is also a man with no appeal. To oneself slackened, the man who is tight to his girlfriend must be selfish, is the most cannot marry.

Money is the most visible thing to a man's nature and feelings. Sisters are not talking about money, but if he makes you feel wrong about money, think about whether he is right for you. In the time of love, normal consumption is supposed to meet the beginning of the said clear to a man too good calculation, too afraid of loss. In a future marriage, there are many places where people need to be sacrificed, so that men will be the first to run away.

7. The man who hits can not have to, be hit once must break up.

Playboy, foot on a few boat men can not want to find a certain to break up. Old words, Dang, against its chaos.

8. Girls in love should have their own bottom line.

Must not because loves him, abandons own dignity, insults own parents, abandons own work. Good feelings, marriage must be a win, not a one-sided sacrifice and fulfillment.

9. Meet the man you like, must be brave to chase.

Unrequited love is the most hurtful and the least result.

10. Have words to speak plainly.

Have any idea, say out, don't let a man to guess, can communicate, your life will be happier. Inability to communicate means your happiness is not guaranteed. I don't think a man is happy with the thought of his girlfriend. For this reason, it is a pity to lose a good man.

11. Do not start in front of men to do virtuous shape.

If he is comfortable with your pay, but do not understand the return, he has a male-feminist suspicion. If you have a long time, feel relaxed, do not before good, he will be very hurt, will think you cheated him or you do not love him. As a first step, show your love, give him the opportunity to show, and let him do something for you. To be honest, men are impressed by what they give. The more he does for you, the more he pays for you, the more he is reluctant to leave. Instead, you pay, his gain he has no feeling. In the marriage, often do housework, often take care of the children of the man to give up the possibility of marriage is much lower, it is because the family is his hard to create, he is reluctant to give up. A lot of heartless men have a most virtuous, selfless woman in silence to pay. I finally decided to marry my boyfriend, because he and I said: "I am very worried about you, I always fear you are not good, or meet something, as long as I do not see you, I am very worried about you." His dedication and my gratitude are the best ways for us to get along.

12. When the break is broken.

Everyone has the possibility of making mistakes, but if one is wrong, there is a problem. A lot of sisters because "with him for n years", "he is my first man", "I have for him to flow N children", "I have to pay ..." "I have ... Years old "and endure and a man who does not treat himself to live together, finally injured or himself." A friend of mine said to me: "Things in this world, there is no fixed, it is either better or worse, in short, there is no constant." This sentence directly prompted me to get out of a bad feeling. Because, I know, if you want to change, that relationship will only become worse, later I will suffer more injuries. My courage is the most solid foundation for me to have a good time.

13. Love because of love, not for a beautiful wedding or a dream of luxurious life and love.

All happiness comes at a price, but don't let some cost ruin your life. Young girls are easily blinded by vanity, but in a real marriage, the man who can cover up the quilt at night is the man worthy of his life.

14. Cherish the man who truly loves you and is good to you.

A good man will be nice to you in a way that is really good for you, not to pamper you, or to bind you in the name of Loving you. Such a few men, if encountered, must cherish. Young men tend to love their girlfriends in a pure way, he may not mature, but his love is true, do not give up lightly. After more experience in the community, you will know how precious a true heart.

15. Everything is in time.

There are many good men in this world who are struggling to find the other half. Not all men Only love virgins, not all men will care about your previous marriage, not all men care about your age degree. There are many good marriages, men love, is their own woman's stupid, naïve and round body, or the mouth of the mole. Your injury, he will double cherish, your courage, will make him more respect. So, even if you are hurt, be like Jinsanshun, brave to love, as if not hurt. You have to open yourself first, the world will let you go.

16. Don't pay your heart for a man's first pursuit.

Good men and bad men in the pursuit of your first, will care about you, pick you up, send you text messages, when you are sick to take care of you. Don't be a good person to you, you immediately fall into, think, look more, and then make a decision. Generally, four months, enough contact, enough to let you know him. Online communication does not count, and then a long time network contact is not counted, the real life is meaningful. You have to eat with him, go shopping, do something together to get to know him. You are fast and unhappy, you know. Many times, not the man is deceiving us, is we deceive ourselves.

17. If you love him, accept his present, don't fantasize about his change.

If he can change, of course, the best, otherwise, just think, you can accept. Every shortcoming before marriage will be magnified. He smokes, and you love him, try to accept it, the man who quit smoking after marriage is too few. The same is true of other shortcomings.

Men over the age of 18.30 tend to have fixed life habits and lifestyles, and the likelihood of a complete change for a woman is not too great, and he needs you to adapt to him. Instead, young men are more willing to change for the woman they love.