Can reading improve the emotional quotient of people?

Most of the emotional quotient of people is not read out, is to observe people every day, learning people practice. EQ is not used to deal with abstract words and knowledge, but to deal with living people.

Like "After life," said, heard a lot of great principles, but still have a bad lifetime, see a lot of skills, but do not deal with people every day, EQ still will not be greatly improved.

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Low EQ, the first half of the boring engineering men to do after the sale, less than half a year, completely changed a person, the wine table can manage everyone to drink, to tell you funny jokes, you talk about what he can talk a few words, and he also often gesanchaiwu nothing to greet you.

Is this kind of change a sentiment quotient high?

From a practical point of view, this is the emotional quotient has become higher.

The so-called EQ level, but is a training after a reaction mode. Can and a dog's conditioned reflex something like that. The person and the person's EQ appears to have the difference reason, is because receives the training not to be same, some people are strengthened is the examination ability, namely IQ, some people are strengthened conditioned reflex is lovable, namely EQ Merchant. The difference is just where the energy and time are spent, and the surgery industry has a specialization.

EQ can be expressed by courtesy, chatting, courtesy, pretending to feel the same, and so on, just as IQ can be measured by tests, and can be trained. But EQ training is not a talk, but a reality show.

After training, even if you are low EQ, you can act like EQ High, in the end, you believe that your emotional quotient is high.

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As an IQ is still growing, the emotional quotient is still improving people, this answer actually got so much praise, a little unexpected. Thank you for your support.

This question is only by chance, and there is time to answer it conveniently. There is time again today, say again.

One October this year, I went to Zhengzhou Inner View Center for 10 days. Inside the view of the open, S.N. teacher said a passage I feel very reasonable. The effect is: wisdom is divided into three kinds, smell hui, think hui, repair hui. Huihui, that is to say, think-hui, is to study, read, learn and think about, and repair Hui, is to change their own wisdom, to hear what they have learned for their own wisdom.

Most people have no wisdom and are in a nameless state. In the main problem, is that most people do not feel their emotional quotient, whether the need to improve, just according to the way people live around.

And Huihui people, is to know the emotional quotient abnormal people, and understand their own gap with some people.

A thinker is a person who thinks more about how to improve EQ, find books and find someone to study. The people who can reach this step of wisdom are very few.

and to repair Hui, is to know the line of unity, preach learned knowledge, skills, test what can be used, which cannot use the process. This is the most crucial step in determining the difference between people and human beings.

As a person who likes to learn all kinds of things, but seldom practice, I have a deep understanding of this. The difference between a rough book and a person who does not read is just a little bit of fur content. But the man who reads, knows more ways and tricks to improve EQ, although it is only fur, but he has a map, but he who does not read, he stands in the boundless wilderness, do not know where the body, also whereabouts unknown. Therefore, reading is good, reading to improve EQ must be beneficial, although not so stick to see the shadow, but only give you direction.