Choose a partner with consistent values we start our own life

Select partners with consistent values

We start a business equivalent to life, I personally feel more like a woman's life, not like a man's life. We always say that the investment is to use women's thinking, can not use men thinking. What do you mean? The first thing is that women are all for a lifetime, men are fun and happy thinking. You like you see "non-interference", this kind of dating shows, are women pick men, because the woman seriously serious, see a man, put this matter and marriage. So the choice of partners especially serious. But we toss a lot of male thinking, always said that the first to say, this back to say, the marriage is married, so this is not the same. The so-called marriage is to ask us to speak of the values, personality, birth, background and physical situation in all aspects of the life of this level, so this is the choice of partners is very important.
First of all, the value of the matter is very important, you choose a partner, in fact, as with the object, the values must be consistent, so that you two can share weal and woe, go on, can resolve a lot of crisis. There is also the benefit of partnership values, that even when you are apart, it does not affect your continued friendship. Therefore, the tacit understanding of the values, and the judgment of the right and wrong is the most important choice of partners, this and women start a lifelong thinking, the first thing is to find the object is the same point of view.
So at first you have to go beyond the idea of money and finally make money, this is the ideal, not come up at the beginning is completely a make up, because you have money I have a relationship with us first, this thing will be broken, not afraid, the key is to break the good-looking, and finally can come back to meet this is better. So start looking for a partner, indeed, in terms of values need more scrutiny, more discussion, not exactly you have the money I have relations he has a product finally make up a piece, this may be a short time will be good, but next will be very troublesome.

If you talk about the experience and experiences of entrepreneurship, I now observe a lot of this. Ma Yun They are also very successful, more than 10 people finally do very well. Of course, there is no need to partner, up on their own to do. Yesterday, I was chatting with an old river to say that this era is fast past, today this era of entrepreneurial people will have partners. 20 years ago, I was doing business with Liu, when no one dared to do business, only very few people do business, these people slowly developed to the lake Big Brother, is completely a person, the following a bunch of professional managers, they are this model, but their brother later also have changes. At that time more of a hero led a group of people, now more than a few shareholders to start a business partnership. When several people are partners, the whole system of values is very fragmented, the value of this thing say big not small, it important where, very interesting, it is important that people and people are different from each other, sitting together chatting to eat seems to be the same, a go out to think things are different, the equivalent of two Muslims, A Christian, a Muslim, sitting there, talking to each other, you said what I said, your book I also know your handwriting I know, but a go out to find God, a look for Allah, completely different.

What is the sense of values, the farther away the gap, close to see, away from the time, when we separate, you like to walk 20 years, you find that this Muslim is a life, the Christian is a life, Buddhism is a life, atheists is a life, you find that the longer you go the more different, You can't see the difference when you walk for a short time. The more things you experience, the more you find that the value gap is great.

A few days ago in Singapore with Zhang Yong Understand, seabed fishing is now opened in Singapore, Los Angeles also opened. People are very happy because of the consistency of values, not how much money they make. In fact, the beginning of the selection of the values of the partnership is equivalent to finding a spiritual, and future development in the direction of life, the way the partner, so this matter is now very important.

Venture to understand risk control

The second thing, if you embark on your entrepreneurial life, then we say that women's thinking, that is, you must control the risk, the previous talk of the thinking of the marriage is to control the risk of the way. It is important that you be happy before you settle or you are safe and happy. We always joke that women's thinking must be in a safe situation to find happiness, and these bad men are often at risk, such as Rei Zhenfu, risk first happy to say, did not expect the camera head in the bag. Therefore, among leading cadres, Rei Zhenfu such comrades, and constantly contribute to the fight against corruption, let us realize that the difficulty of anti-corruption is indeed very large. But you rarely see women cadres in corruption also have corruption, but rarely this operation, basically is called home, in the premise of security to do so. We do business is also the case, whether you are a picture of the quick to do a thing, or in the risk of all under control, enjoy that little fun, big happy and small fun in fact life is different. You have to pursue a small success delight under risk control, which can often be successful. Like many engineers from the founder of this is the case, such as our comparative arena of entrepreneurs, become less exquisite, the pursuit of a temporary expansion. But an engineer-born entrepreneur who knows every bit of technical improvement and success in a safe and secure situation leads to a big success.

You know, open a supermarket in the laboratory, before driving into the street, I do not know that you have seen the commercial laboratory? What is that lab, the supermarket to simulate all the supermarket stores, such as a lot of shampoo brands there, find some target crowd to do the test, everyone to the point of gifts, to buy some coupons or something, the camera on the top of the shoot. The experiment divides these people into several kinds, has the wandering type, has seen buys the type, then according to the age, studies every day. After the study of his shelves began to adjust, and then put it into the supermarket, so that each shelf turnover than unscientific sales of more than 40%, this is science. So now business is more scientific, science becomes what, is small happiness, not great happiness, so business to become under the control of all aspects of risk, gradually gather small happiness, these small victories finally became a great success. Like QQ micro-letter experience always add one, you find always add a small thing, eventually formed a huge hundreds of millions of customer base, and finally achieved super success.

That is to say, people and people get along with this, you only pursue the pleasure of love and hatred, indeed a moment of strength, sometimes very easy, difficult is a few decades down, has been in a control of risk situations, to deal with small problems, to deal with small problems in a stage of success and happiness. Suntech recently a little bit of a situation, I am afraid to be more brave, the government refueling in the back, the industry over expansion, this a lot of brave. Including some companies after the listing, money a lot to be brave, for example, I now try to do three-dimensional city, this is a bit of a hero, but we know that the risk control, in the premise of controlling risk, not to gamble all the worldly possessions in this matter.

We should pay attention to the communication between the pioneering partners

I say the third stage of women's thinking, how to communicate and get along with the expression, communication is very important. Why is that? In life, there is one thing is communication, communication has an infinite number of methods and patience, in fact, in the entrepreneurial process, the communication between these partners has become a long-term business, and finally because of poor communication, there is a problem. So I think we are doing business together, the business itself is more annoying.

In fact, there is a need for communication, the other side communication is very difficult. It's not that I speak, you listen, it's called communication. Use behavior when you don't have enough language to communicate. Let's say two people are arguing about one thing, you go out to dinner, pack it up and get him a box of lunch. This is behavior, he feels you still care about him. Therefore, the entrepreneurial partners to communicate, we need to find a unified channel, this is the values. I tell these stories, in fact, every time you start a business, sometimes you as the entrepreneur as Chairman and general Manager, you have to pay attention to these details. You don't pay attention to these things, you always communicate in your own way. The effect is not necessarily good. Overall communication on a lot of detail skills, must be particularly careful, you will not be careful to misjudge, when your behavior did not keep up on the misjudgment. In fact, the company's long-term development is to get along, entrepreneurship is like a person's life, first look at each other, become a lifelong and partner, second, not too happy, to seek goodwill in a safe situation, and then to improve, to seek the ultimate happiness of life; third, since it's getting along, it's important to communicate with each other, and then get used to communicating. and understand each other in a variety of ways.