It's time to put the phone down.

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Now there is such a funny words "the furthest distance in the world is that we sit together, you are playing mobile phones." ", although funny, but really expressed the present stage of people's life style, recently, the Qingdao Citizen Zhang and his brother and sister to go to Grandpa's house to eat dinner, the table on the elderly many times want to talk with grandchildren, but before the children are all holding a mobile phone play, the old man was left out, rage fell off the plate.

In fact, such things are not a few, the New Year's Eve dinner and so on are reflected in such a problem. But the various psychological diseases caused by the mobile phone are repeatedly staged in every corner of the society. Many mobile phone families have "mobile phone ringing" illusion, while walking while playing mobile phone is the street to hide the scenery. Buses, subways, venues, classrooms, offices ... As long as you can think of places, almost all people are playing mobile phones. If in a place, mobile phone no signal or network, many people will be unusually anxious and anxious, as if the world mercilessly abandoned the same.

"The media is an extension of the human body," says McLuhan, a master of communication, and the mobile phone, dubbed the "fifth media", seems to support this view. In the technology so developed today, the function of mobile phone has already overflowed its pure communication meaning, become an omnipotent terminal, chat, play games, brush micro bo, shopping ... Mobile phones are becoming a thing that people can't leave for a while. But this is not entirely a good thing, as it deepens people's reliance on mobile phones, it naturally reduces dependence on affection. Why do people suffer from cell phone dependence? This requires a psychological search for lesions. The reality of high pressure, often let people have the mentality of escape, and the virtual world, just cater to this psychological appeal. Over time, this evasion becomes a kind of laziness, more people are willing to express their demands in the virtual world, in order to avoid the disturbance caused by the real communication. And the abuse of mobile phone dependence is obvious, it makes people gradually lose the ability of social communication, being materialized, instrumental, from "social person" into "tool man", thereby aggravating the estrangement between people, strange feeling. In this process, many useful habits are abandoned, such as outing, fitness, reading, listening to music, so that the mobile phone, the network, so that people's body and mind gradually impetuous, void, the sense of dependence on tools increasingly aggravating, the ultimate person and tools to form an inseparable binding.

Get rid of mobile phone dependence, return to the reality of interpersonal communication, more afraid need to rebuild self-confidence and trust, and form a broad free communication environment. People's communicative pressure is bound to be released by trust and ease. On the one hand, it is necessary to have a new position on the mobile phone as a modern communication tool, and pick up some gradually abandoned habits, such as outing, social and so on. On the other hand, we can get along with relatives, and other people, it may be possible to turn the phone into mute or even shut down, to face-to-face communication, improve the effectiveness of communication, enhance mutual friendship.

In short, to get rid of the dependence on the mobile phone, a number of direct contacts between people, small to the family, large to society, will become more harmonious.