Out of tune with the team, the problem comes from themselves

(one)

A crow sitting in the tree, doing nothing all day. When a bunny saw the crow, he asked, "Can I sit there for the rest of the day like you, and nothing else?" The crow replied: "Of course, why not?" So the rabbit sat under the tree , Began to rest. Suddenly, a fox appeared. The fox jumps to the rabbit ... and eats it.

The moral of this story is ... If you want to sit there and do nothing, you have to sit very very high.

(two)

A turkey is chatting with a bull. "I thought very much of the top of the tree," sighed the turkey, "but I have no strength." "Well, why do not you eat my droppings?" The bull replied, "It's full Nutrition. "Turkey ate cow dung and found it really energized itself to reach the first fork in the tree. The next day, after eating more cow dung, the turkey reached the second fork of the tree. Eventually, two weeks later, Turkey stood proudly at the top of the tree. Unfortunately, however, it was not long before it was targeted by a farmer, and the farmer fired the turkey very sharply.

The moral of this story is ... Cow dung may help get you to the top but it will not keep you there forever.

(three)

A bird is flying south on the way to winter. The weather is too cold, the bird is freezing, falling from the sky, fell in a large area of ​​farmland. While it was lying in the field, a cow came up and pulled a shit on it. Frozen bird lying in the heap of cattle, digging cow dung is really too warm. Cow dung slowly slowly over it! It was lying there, warm and happy, and soon began to sing happily. A passing cat heard the birds singing, came to check what happened. Along the way, the cat spotted the little bird hiding in cow dung, shaved it very quickly and ate it!

The moral of this story is ...

1) Not every shit on you is your enemy.

2) Not every friend who pulls you out of the heap is your friend.

3) Also, close your beak as you get caught in the deep piles of heap!

(four)

Master of performance There is a performance master before the game, his disciples told him shoelace loose. Master nod thanks, carefully squat down.

Wait until the disciple turned around, but also squat down to relax the shoelaces. An onlookers saw all this and puzzled and asked: "Master, why do you want to loosen the shoelace?" Master replied: "Because I play is a tired traveler, a long journey to let him His shoes are loosened and his exhaustion is gaudy through this detail. "" Then why do not you tell your disciples directly? "" He could have noticed my shoelace loose and told me enthusiastically We must protect his enthusiasm for this enthusiasm in a timely manner to encourage him, as to why the shoelace untied, in the future there will be more opportunities to teach him to perform, you can say next time ah. "People can only do one time Things, understand the key points, is the real talent.

(Fives)

Parrot alone to buy a parrot, parrot to see the former superscript: This parrot will be two languages, priced at 200 yuan. Another parrot before the standard: This parrot will be four languages, priced at 400 yuan. Which one should I buy? Both are bright, very flexible and cute. The person can not make up his mind. The result suddenly found an old toothy parrot, dark bleak coat, priced at 800 yuan. This man quickly called the boss: This parrot is not speaking eight languages? The owner said: no. This person is weird: why is it so old and ugly, and incapable? How much would it cost? The owner replied: Because the other two parrots called the parrot boss.

This story tells us that if the true leader does not necessarily have much ability, he can enhance his worth by uniting himself with stronger powers as long as he understands trust, understands the power and understands it. On the contrary, many very strong people are overly perfectionist and benevolent. People are not as good as themselves. In the end, they can only be the best offensive officers, sales representatives, and outstanding leaders.

(six)

Once upon a time, there were a small number of people in China who came to China and paid tribute to three identical golden people. The Golden Wall was brilliant and pleased the Emperor. However, the people in this small country are not kind and have a question at the same time: Which of these three gold people is the most valuable? The emperor thought of many ways and asked the jeweler to check, weigh, and watch as a worker, all of which are exactly the same.

What to do? Messenger also waiting to go back to report it. Great country, not even this trivial do not understand? Finally, there is an abdicated veteran. The emperor invited the messenger to the main hall, and the veteran held three straw bosomfully and inserted it into the ear of the first priest, who came out of the other ear. The second golden man's straw dropped directly from his mouth, and the third golden man went into the stomach with straw and did not ring anything. Veteran said: The third gold most valuable! Messenger silently, the answer is correct.

This story tells us that the most valuable people are not necessarily the best people to talk about. God gave us two ears a mouth, has always let us listen to less talk. Be good at listening, is the most basic quality of mature people.

(Seven) get rid of the smell of their body!

A pigeon always keeps moving. It feels that every time a new home has been taken for a long time, there is a strong sense of smell that makes it out of breath and forced to move. It felt annoyed and complained of annoyance with an experienced old pigeon.

The old pigeon said: "It is useless for you to move home so many times, because the strange smell that troubled you did not come from the nest but from your own taste."

Fables Revelation: out of tune with the team, the problem comes from their own!

Some people will constantly blame others for fault, blame other people's shortcomings, they feel the surrounding environment and people everywhere against themselves; or consider themselves "superb", most people can not understand their rich and profound thought. In fact, they did not realize that the real problems came not from the surroundings but from themselves. People like this must try to recognize themselves and try to reflect themselves seriously and deeply.

And an organization does not need to regret to lose such a "pigeon."

More and more studies show that leadership is not inherent and that people can gain this ability through acquired efforts. Therefore, to successfully change employees, leaders must first change their leadership qualities.

For leaders, excellent management skills are still required. Leaders have this management ability, not to control and command employees, but to support and help staff development and growth.

In this era of unpredictable global competition, executives and their painstaking pursuit of "advanced" management methods and means, it is better to look away and lock the staff's intelligence and enthusiasm, which is an inexhaustible treasure company, the company must Find the proper way to release them. The only way to achieve this is to shift management from controlling employees to believing the potential of employees and inspiring enthusiasm among employees.

(Eight) resign

A said to B: "I want to leave this company. I hate this company!" B suggested: "I raise my hands in favor of you revenge !! break the company must give it a little color to see. But you leave now, not the most A good time. "A Q: Why? B said:" If you go now, the company's loss is not large.You should take advantage of the opportunity in the company, hard to pull some customers for themselves, become the company's only man , And then with these customers suddenly leave the company, the company will suffer heavy losses, very passive. "A think B is very reasonable. So hard work, then wish, after more than six months of hard work, he has a lot of loyal customers. See you again B asked A: Now is the time to jump quickly move! A indifferent laughed: boss talked to me long, I am going to be promoted to assistant general manager, I have no intention of leaving.

In fact, this is also the original intention of B. A person's job is always just for your resume. Only pay more than get, so that the boss really see your ability to be greater than the position, will give you more opportunities for him to create more profits.

(Nine) choice

Three people are to be jailed for three years, and the warden gives them one for three. Americans love smoking cigars, asking for three boxes of cigars. The most romantic French, accompanied by a beautiful woman. The Jews said he wanted a phone call to communicate with the outside world. Three years later, the first Americans to rush out were stuffed with cigars in their nostrils and shouted: "Give me fire, give me fire!" He turned out to have forgotten the fire. Then came the French. I saw him holding a child, beautiful woman holding a child in her hand, pregnant with a third in the stomach. Finally, the Jewish people came out. He held the hand of the warden tightly and said: "In the past three years I have been in contact with the outside world every day. My business has not only not stopped but has increased by 200%. In order to express my gratitude, I will give you a job Schleiss!

This story tells us what kind of choice determines what kind of life. Today's life is determined by our choices three years ago, and today our choices will determine our life after three years. We have to choose the latest information to understand the latest trends to better create our own future.

(ten)

Tiger Two people in the forest, met a big tiger. A quickly removed from behind a pair of more lightweight sneakers to put on. B anxious dead, cursed: "What are you doing, and then change shoes can not run the tiger ah!" A said: "I just ran faster than you." The twenty-first century, there is no sense of crisis is the greatest crisis. In particular, those enterprises that we think are very stable and secure, such as telecommunications, banking, insurance, and even civil servants, will also face many variables. When more tigers come, we have not ready their own running shoes?

(eleven)

There is a bit of scholar to take a test for the third time to Beijing to test, live in a often live in the shop. Two days before the exam, he made three dreams. The first one dreamed of planting cabbage on the wall. The second one was a rainy day. He wore hats and umbrella. The third dream was dreaming and beloved The cousin stripped naked and lay back with her back. The three dreams seem somewhat profound meaning, the scholar hurried to find the dream of fortune the next day. Fortune-telling a, continuous shooting thigh, said: "You still go home you think about it, planting vegetables on the wall is not working hard? Do you want to wear an umbrella umbrella is not an all-encompassing? Lost with the cousin lying on a bed , But back to back, is not no problem? "Sousa heard, disheartened, backpacking pack to prepare to go home. The store owner is very strange and asked: "is not the exam tomorrow, today how did you return home?" So much so that the scholar, shop owner music: "Yo, I will interpret the dream, I think, You must stay this time.Do you think about the wall planting is not a high species? Do you want to wear an umbrella umbrella is not ready for you this time? Leaving your back with your cousin in bed, not to show you turn over Time is coming? "The scholar heard, more reasonable, so energetically take the exam, actually in a triple.

Positive people, like the sun, according to where bright, negative people, like the moon, the first fifteen different. Ideas determine our lives, what kind of ideas, there is what kind of future.