"A survey of Chinese men and women in love and marriage" report on the details of the blind date of the Singles Day [1]

Singles Day is coming, the National Family Planning Mission Center and China's largest marriage and love dating business platform century Jiayuan, released http://www.aliyun.com/zixun/aggregation/30439.html "> Fourth quarter of China's men and Women Love View Survey Report" Dating those things (next), survey the Chinese men and women in the most important details of dating.

Reporter learned that the survey using the Internet quantitative research in the form of online, a total of 100005 people participated in the survey, which meet the requirements of the respondents 44356. After strict quality audit, 43,964 copies of effective answers are retained.

More than half of the men and women surveyed used the dating site as the preferred route for a blind date because of lack of access to the opposite sex. At the same time, the uncertainty of the network makes the security of matchmaking a more worrying problem.

80, men and women more love text messages

In order to learn more about dating, 82% of women and 75% of men believe that early communication should be made before meeting with a blind date. In the choice of chatting way, 70 before, after and 80, after the difference in the communication mode is obvious. 80, the men and women more love text messages, such as mobile phone platform for text communication, and 70 ago, after the male and female preference to call and use the site of marriage dating website letter to understand each other.

To prevent the "see light die" to prepare for retreat

17% of men and 26% of women said they would prepare for a retreat before a blind date in an attempt to prevent a blind date from being seen dead. Half of them will choose to let friends in the agreed time contact, the other half will be in advance to think of the reasons for leaving. As they grow older, single men and women tend to find reasons to leave without relying on friends.

The "distracting" situation has occurred.

In addition, nearly 30% women in a blind date like to take their companions to travel, and the younger girls with the possibility of a companion, more than 50% of the girls will be with their girlfriends or family to go on a blind date. Of course, the "distracting" situation often occurs in a blind date, nearly 80% of men said that if they look at the date of the companion, they will not hesitate to launch the offensive.

There is a big difference between men and women who are late, except in the same way that they are with their peers. The survey shows that men show "self-discipline, wider than treat her" characteristics. Only 12% of men thought it was acceptable to be 20 minutes late, but 71% said the woman could be half an hour late, or even 1/4 of men would wait more than 1 hours. And when a man is late for more than 20 minutes, 40% girls are not willing to wait, and when the man is late for more than 40 minutes, basically no girls will wait.

First impressions are important.

The survey also showed that while 90% of people thought first impressions were important, men's instrument preparation was not exactly the same as women's concerns. On the basics of "shaving" and "changing clothes," the degree of preparedness of men and the level of attention of women were higher; for the preparation of a bath that can be solved (such as "Hair clean", "body odor", etc.), men and women are largely concerned; but in "Nails", "Sock color," "Nose hair," "Perfume." In detail, women are more concerned than men, and the relative value of men's shoes is clean, but women are not as concerned as men.

In the process, more than 3/4 of men first saw the date, even if not very satisfied with the talk for a while, more than 60% of women also said they would insist. No matter men or women, "turn around" is less. Out of respect for the object of the blind date, even in the belief that the blind date is not very appropriate circumstances, we will also choose to talk a few words to end the blind date.

The choice of topic is "unto, impose"

For the choice of the topic of dating, men and women are basically consistent, are unwilling to answer the property, the predecessor-related issues, as long as the spirit of "unto, impose" principle of communication, basically will not be silent. According to the survey, women are most likely to have ideas, ideals, and a gentle, considerate and gentlemanly male, while the gentle and thoughtful women are the easiest to impress men.

The cost of first meeting should be paid by the men.

Blind dates inevitably involve eating, watching movies, and so on, where men and women are basically able to reach a "consensus": About 80% of men and women agree that the cost of first meeting should be "paid" by men. AA system is often regarded as the performance of men's petty and not enough gentleman, but the acceptance degree of the AA system is significantly higher than that of the women who are in love.

"To welcome and reject" and "taste"

If both sides feel better after the end of the marriage, when the men put women home, women's attitude is "to welcome also refused", the male performance "taste" characteristics. The younger men insist on sending girls home at a higher rate. The higher the social class the more women tend to accept men to send themselves home. If both sides feel better, 99% of men will contact women first after a blind date. 87% of women and 88% of men believe that the first contact after a blind date should be within two days of the end of the blind date.

Most of the netizens surveyed believed that the key to assessing the success of a blind date was the blind date itself, which had little to do with the external factors such as the environment of the blind Date and the quality of the food and beverage.

Expert opinion

Century Jia Yuan founder and joint CEO, emotional expert Gong said, in the blind date this matter, the female to another companion's request often too meticulous, concrete. It is recommended that the broad masses of single women, especially "leftover girls", should not be too demanding on men, looking for their dream lover from Love novels, and the reality of "perfect man" does not exist. After the end of the blind date, the man feel good words must be brave, active contact with the woman, to express their sincerity, and girls at this time can be moderately reserved, test the man's sincerity.

Editor: Ma Yuan Tags: female marriage view Singles Day See Death pay

80, men and women more love text messages in order to know more about blind dates, 82% of women and 75% of men think that before meeting with the target should be early communication. In the choice of chatting way, 70 before, after and 80, after the difference in the communication mode is obvious. 80, the men and women more love text messages, such as mobile phone platform for text communication, and 70 ago, after the male and female preference to call and use the site of marriage dating website letter to understand each other.

Editor: Ma Yuan Tags: female marriage view Singles Day See Death pay

To prevent "see light die" ready to retreat in order to avoid the blind date of "See Light Die" dilemma, 17% of men and 26% of women said they will prepare for their retreat before the blind date. Half of them will choose to let friends in the agreed time contact, the other half will be in advance to think of the reasons for leaving. As they grow older, single men and women tend to find reasons to leave without relying on friends.

In addition, nearly 30% women in a blind date like to take their companions to travel, and the younger girls with the possibility of a companion, more than 50% of the girls will be with their girlfriends or family to go on a blind date. Of course, the "distracting" situation often occurs in a blind date, nearly 80% of men said that if they look at the date of the companion, they will not hesitate to launch the offensive.

First impressions are important. The survey also shows that while 90% of people think that first impressions are important in a blind date, men's instrument preparation is not exactly the same as women's concerns. On the basics of "shaving" and "changing clothes," the degree of preparedness of men and the level of attention of women were higher; for the preparation of a bath that can be solved (such as "Hair clean", "body odor", etc.), men and women are largely concerned; but in "Nails", "Sock color," "Nose hair," "Perfume." In detail, women are more concerned than men, and the relative value of men's shoes is clean, but women are not as concerned as men.

Editor: Ma Yuan Tags: female marriage view Singles Day See Death pay

The choice of topic to "unto, impose" for the choice of the topic of the Blind Date, men and women are basically consistent, are unwilling to answer the property, the predecessor-related issues, as long as the spirit of "unto, impose" principle of communication, basically will not be silent. According to the survey, women are most likely to have ideas, ideals, and a gentle, considerate and gentlemanly male, while the gentle and thoughtful women are the easiest to impress men.

Editor: Ma Yuan Tags: female marriage view Singles Day See Death pay

Talk about what?

Editor: Ma Yuan Tags: female marriage view Singles Day See Death pay

"To welcome also refused" and "taste" if the Blind date after the two sides feel good, in the male proposed female home, women's attitude is "to welcome also refused", the male performance "taste" characteristics. The younger men insist on sending girls home at a higher rate. The higher the social class the more women tend to accept men to send themselves home. If both sides feel better, 99% of men will contact women first after a blind date. 87% of women and 88% of men believe that the first contact after a blind date should be within two days of the end of the blind date.