Brother Water is not everyone, is lonely

Renren

See too much spit everyone and Chen article, is not in the silence of the great ship, is not far from the dead dinosaurs, but at least until today, everyone still alive in the spit sound can. Brush state, water everyone, such a day is almost an indispensable part of college life, as if no one (school) of the university time is incomplete. If it really is like a friend said is dying, then we are accustomed to the nostalgia of the 8090, not more than a sentimental youth lost object. Is it time for Chen to take a "Chinese investor"?

Let's look at Chen and everyone else today to see why it's still alive, but why everyone thinks it's going to die.

One, Goshui is not everyone, is lonely

McLuhan once said that the media is an extension of human beings, and in such an era of internet socialization, the social network has also been extended. We can use micro-letter to shake, you can also use a stranger about one, you can chat in the forum fart, you can also in the game of a noisy day turn. But the problem is, the virtual world has not brought us much satisfaction, the more lively the reality, the more empty heart.

Flirting with Siri became popular, and before everyone on that little yellow chicken to bring the upsurge, from a side reflected in the Internet environment grew up in the hearts of our generation of emptiness lonely cold. People rarely sit down and talk for a long time, but they can pull a big one with a robot. Of course, then said back, put a real person in front of me, I do not dare to like the same as the Siri to flirt AH.

Everyone is actually more like a line of social relations online, everyone friends will be their classmates, plus the elder sister, learn younger sister, anyway there is always a "learn" word, which in fact also largely limited its development, but this later.

For the vast number of white-collar workers, there are heavy work and congestion every day of traffic, not only to keep themselves tired of coping, but also the necessary vomit groove object. But for everyone's main user group college students are not the case, they need a lot of things to fully fill them in addition to the exam week other time.

To some extent, everyone is such a boring time tool, so we see brush everyone to become the students on the necessary lessons, as the sentence, the teacher's attention to the degree of attraction and mobile phone traffic usage is inversely proportional. A lot of people are in the Alexa rankings say things, indeed everyone's recent ranking has fallen to the global 132, Chinese ranked 24, but do not know that everyone in the wireless end of the traffic increment is how much, perhaps it is difficult to statistics, But just find a student's mobile phone to see how much traffic it has spent in one months is good for everyone. Of course, it may be more intuitive to go to class and peek at what everyone is doing.

But the problem is that boredom cannot be sent through other channels. Cock Silk House dormitory play game, Ko handsome about soft sister come out to play, but some needs at present see only everyone can meet. Although the term "demand" has been said to be rotten, it has to be admitted that everyone satisfies a certain rigid needs of the student community, which has become an important reason for its not dying.

Two, we fear only fear itself

Brush everyone this word very vividly shows the user for everyone's use of the situation, most people often constantly down to refresh, until after reading all the status has not been seen, but also will keep refreshing the page, lest they leave out the new state, which is somewhat of a feeling of anxiety for everyone.

But it's not anxiety, it's a fear, and for many college students, they're afraid of losing their knowledge of the information around them, even though they prefer to stay in the dorm. They maintain a realistic social network by sending status and pictures, responses and comments to everyone. They fear that once they miss something or leave everyone, their connection with many people will be broken, and of course it may be true indeed.

And those who constantly update the state of the user, it is not out of a fear, fear of losing the attention of the outside world, fear of their own lost in the whole group of the sense of existence.

What's more, everyone has a little glimpse of selfish desires, can see the dynamic of others, and then in their own brain yy, sometimes compared to a Japanese art film more comfortable. See the Goddess in his mind smiled at herself, and then found that the goddess in everyone sent two meaningful verses, so they began to fill their own brain, although in fact she just saw her Gaofu boyfriend holding a rose right in the back just.

But as Roosevelt said, what we fear is only fear itself, and when the human mind matures, the effects of this fear on Renren are reduced. So we see that everyone's user's active degree is often in the big moment to reach the peak, then is diminishing.

On the one hand, we find that the actual value that this kind of virtual society brings to oneself is not much, more just a waste of time, and with the University of Fresh energy in the past, more and more people began to plan and think about the future, we are not so boring, and not so afraid of the people around the lack of contact.

On the other hand, fear may sometimes mutate, if the initial state is constantly, and then various replies, comments, forwarding is because of fear of being forgotten. Then with the user's increasingly mature, the user is not a long time to send a state is precisely because of fear of being outside attention. When asked about this question, many people have said that with the continuous deepening of university life, each send a state of thinking will be more and more, fear it may lead to some bad consequences, so that the last lazy to consider, simply a not hair, just look at other people's state. But the problem is that after all, everyone's viscosity to the user is becoming weaker.

Third, the user inertia, a beautiful mistake

Before there are articles that users have not used everyone has started to flee, because Sina Weibo, QQ space in advance to rob users away. The latter I agree, the former I personally firmly opposed.

QQ space is the most commonly used SNS website of Junior High School this undoubtedly, I have done such a small survey. Because they generally have QQ number, naturally opened the QQ space. In addition to Tencent all kinds of drilling, all kinds of decoration, a variety of privileges for China's young people's powerful lethality, QQ space Rob these users normal but. For teens in the one or two-line city, Weibo is also a common tool, but social functions are weaker for them.

But this does not mean that users will flee everyone, because as they enter the campus, they will find that QQ space and high school before the classmate interaction, and the campus most people are using a call "everyone" thing. Bois has put forward an important social principle-the approach of law, and we tend to interact with people who are in the same social position, who have shared social experience and roles. With the entrance to the university, we and the students around the university to establish a stronger connection, and with the past high school, even junior high school, primary students contact more and more sparse. This elimination of the long, users will still be transferred to everyone, and gradually reduce the use of QQ space. In this way, offline social relations have not been able to transfer to the QQ space, but still remain in everyone.

So the cycle, level and level, everyone in such a strong user inertia under the support of continuous operation, but this inertia has not put everyone out of the campus to society, but it has become the most beautiful mistake.

As those who use QQ space to enter the university when the people found here is everyone's world, when these use of everyone's college students on the Society will also find that the outside is the world of micro-blogging.

Iv. the paradox of acquaintances ' social intercourse

Wu in the "top of the wave" in the constant emphasis on corporate gene impact on enterprises, perhaps everyone is trapped in such an acquaintance with the social Gene bar.

Acquaintances and social, these two words put together, how to see how awkward, since it is an acquaintance, but also talk about what social ah. But everyone is just such a product, I have said before, it is actually the offline reality of social relations transplanted to the line, coupled with the fact that the characteristics of the name system, so that its user contacts lack of expansion, so it can not be a huge user group brought about by maximizing the network effect.

We see that everyone is relying more on games, advertising, members of the user based on the mining of profits, but not through the link between users to produce benefits. Although everyone also has the gift of the function, but everyone's gift page access ratio is only 0.39%, this is very descriptive. Based on personal users to mining profits, too slow to make money, too fast and may be overdrawn users, so that everyone is not in the go, not back. On this aspect of the analysis before many friends have written the article, I do not say more here.

Socializing with acquaintances does not mean that it simply consolidates the tools of existing social networks without the ability to extend connections. But I wonder if you've ever heard of such a conversation?

A: Do you know her?

B: No, no, no, I just added her to everyone.

Everyone is such a tragedy, from offline to online easy, from line to line but lack of connectivity, perhaps this also with the Chinese character, as well as a lot of deeper factors, so even if you follow Facebook, may inadvertently "must die."

Everyone has a friend recommended function, but probably the number of common friends as the recommended standard, so someone put those recommended friends to add, and then tragedy happened. When he opened everyone, found by a group of people do not know to brush screen, really want to see those friends State is not so easy to find. Of course, if there are one or two of them are the kind of forwarding ads account, it is really the first color.

Because of this information overload of the possibility, so many people in the new add friends tend to consider, or slowly unbearable to escape everyone (everyone deleted more friends also need to verify). As for those who can have a bunch of friends do not know, still comfortable brush everyone's high, streamer silently worship.

And everyone in the field of social strangers and the MO, micro-letter compared, is not competitive, someone will take the real name (although not strict) of everyone about cannon? Even if you find Bai Fumi from everyone, do you rely on messages to communicate with each other?

Everyone seems to be only looking for the image of the goddess of the weapon Ah.

V. Social life can't do content

On Weibo, perhaps you can and I have a very big difference, send a variety of pictures, words, and in everyone, the expression of that you, but often is that present in front of your friends.

Because in addition to a few good friends on Weibo, a lot of people may focus on you just because you have a good picture, but in everyone, the reason others pay attention to you is the person you are. Weibo is a content-based product, and everyone is socially based.

College students have plenty of time and a cognitive surplus, but less privacy is the biggest umbrella of Internet content production. The content that everybody produces is to oneself social circle of person to see, these content is his personality characteristic projection, so often after various consideration when releasing, greatly reduces the user to create content enthusiasm.

From the home page and everyone to share 77.74% of 21.65% of the site to visit the proportion of users to use more people are still looking at the status of friends, rather than those sharing on the content. But can not rely on the production of the power to create high-quality content, just rely on such as Lu Siho Youth Inspirational writers, how to let users happy to share it.

How can anyone, born with a social-genetic product, be born without a life of content and criticize it for not being good?

Despite the constant questioning, I don't think anyone will really die unless there is a major technological change, because there are so many reasons for it to live. However, a product is not afraid of the present, but must not see the future.

Perhaps everyone does not die, just wither.