Chinese men don't deserve Chinese women? Male netizens: Defy

Nearly 60% female respondents in favor of nearly 70% male respondents against the recent, a "Chinese man is not worthy of Chinese women?" "The article vigorously shelled the Chinese men did not have the image, temporarily became the social media hot spot. The article said that Chinese men are generally sloppy, temperament is wretched, has not been matched with international standards of Chinese women. Is that true? Yesterday, the newspaper interviewed 1259 people in the form of a full media survey, which showed that nearly 60% of female respondents were in favour of the idea, while nearly 70% per cent of male respondents objected. Chinese male temperament is inferior to Chinese female? The men and women interviewed differ in their views! Some time ago, China's famous social networking site Tianya appeared a hot post-"Now the obvious woman on the road in Shanghai is higher than the male grade, there is a picture of truth." The post concludes that the men are either dressed in a sloppy, or depressed, not a comfortable, but the girls are quite temperament. This view gets a lot of response from the thread. There are portals recently launched the topic of "Chinese men's image temperament is not worthy of Chinese women?" Aroused heated discussion. Do men and women agree with this conclusion? How much time and money do Chinese men spend on creating images? Yesterday, this newspaper through the form of electronic questionnaires to the national netizens launched a full media survey. The survey received 1259 respondents in less than 24 hours. Among them, 487 men accounted for 38.68% of the total number of respondents, and 772 women accounted for 61.32%. It seems that women have a more expressive desire for this topic. The findings show that Chinese men and women have a near-opposite view of the Chinese man's image as a Chinese woman. The survey found that 68.38% of men do not think Chinese men are not good enough for Chinese women, with a total disapproval of reaching 43.12%. Among the women surveyed, 56.61% of the respondents felt that Chinese men were not worthy of Chinese women, and 25.39% of them were very much in favour, with only 2.2% of women completely disapproved of this view. Interestingly, 7.19% of men agree that Chinese men are not worthy of Chinese women. Nearly 40% of male respondents bear the cost of their families alone, as the Shanghai Academy of Social Sciences researcher Shaojian said, the results of the multimedia survey show that in household expenses (including mortgage, car, water and electricity), male respondents ' economic burden is slightly heavier. According to our survey, the proportion of household expenses of male respondents to monthly income 0%~20%, 20%~40% and 40%~60% was 37%, 29% and 21% respectively. The proportion of female respondents was 41%, 35% and 18%. This result can also be supported by another set of data. Asked who was responsible for the main household expenditure, 52% per cent said it was shared by both sexes. The proportion of the male-borne total was 38%, and only 10% was borne by the woman. Chinese women's image is in line with the world's high employment rate management 6.5.html "the 2013 China Luxury market research report by Bain, a > consultancy, shows that in China nearly 70% per cent of women have paid jobs, well above the global average of 53%. The number of Chinese women at executive level is also higher than the global average. "I buy myself luxuries to please and reward myself," said one female luxury consumer. I work and take care of my family, and I can afford to spend it all. More than 80% men buying shirts dress up spending less than monthly income 20% the results of the survey showed that respondents spent less than 40% of their monthly income on cosmetics, beauty care and clothing purchases. 86.5% of the men surveyed said the spending accounted for only 0%~20% of monthly income, the female respondents chose only 43% per cent, while another 37% of female respondents accounted for 20%~40% of monthly income, and even 14% of female respondents said they were in cosmetics, The amount of money spent on beauty care and clothing purchases has accounted for the 40%~60% of monthly income. Even nearly a 2% of female respondents bought clothes and other dress up spending accounted for more than 80% of the monthly income. Male and female citizen dialogue spouse: Male image is not the first company middle-level director Ms. Chen: I agree that most Chinese men don't pay attention to image. I don't pay much attention to men's appearance, so clean up. For women, the image of men is not the first, may be due to economic pressure and other practical problems. Beijing White Collar Ms. Zhou: Most Chinese aesthetic education is missing, men or women, but the environment and tradition make women have to pay more attention to their appearance. I don't think women wearing Gucci shoes with LV bags are better than men with high waist trousers and bags, but they are all the same. Man: Some women only weight fame and fortune not heavy temperament Shanghai police Lother: Chinese men are not worthy of Chinese women? This is a pseudo proposition in itself. Why can lei so many young women flock to? This shows that the problem itself is not in terms of who is not worthy of who, but their own value orientation. Media worker Chuchu: Should say, still have a lot of tasteful woman, they pursue delicacy and intension. However, it is undeniable that there are also many women, the pursuit of money and desire for material too strong, mate with too many other factors. I think that the poor man's temperament and those eyes only fame and wealth of secular women have a lot to do. Stylist: Clothes to fit the texture of the Hong Kong stylist Xiao Y: Chinese men are not poor in appearance. Most of our Chinese men don't pay much attention to their own image, even do not know how to wear their own clothes. A lot of Chinese men in the year but 30 began to have belly, and even a gate on the uncle's line running, very regrettable. In fact, as long as the shape of some fine-tuning, the use of relatively good material casual wear, choose suitable for the body of clothing cover defects, change hairstyle and accessories, can look more spiritual. Female star Xie Na, Xiaoran, quiet, Hailu: bearing, courage, responsibility, faith, to take these aspects of quality is the first requirement for male women. According to the tradition, there is the wind of a being. In the criteria of the Good man's selection, the inner fixTo occupy a considerable level. Expert dialogue Li: Traditional culture respected male (wealth) female appearance sociologist Li: Chinese men's image is not a woman's preferred choice, Chinese women do not value men's appearance, there are two main reasons: one is the traditional culture, the male (financial) female appearance has been regarded as a perfect match since ancient times, the value of the argument is inherited, and the other is social stratification, In a society with economic, social and cultural stratification, women do not necessarily pick beautiful men, but pick money, power, fame and brilliance, and women tend to look from top to bottom in social stratification, and so do men, who are placed in relatively minor positions. As for the worthy, only the parties themselves know. From the outside, it may be precisely the most invisible. As to why most Chinese men appear to be apathetic, the sex culture of China since ancient times has not emphasized the sexual attractiveness of men, unlike the western advocates of Arnold Schwarzenegger muscle male, the image of the ancient male God is mostly Buite, like Jia Baoyu. And in the Western School sports star is the object that the girl is in pursuit of, the boy is keen to exercise own body, show sexy show muscle, tidy can recruit girl like. If men are ugly, not sexy, slovenly, so can marry a beautiful wife, men do not have the power to dress. Only when women are picky and demanding, men improve. Shaojian: Men bear more pressure more researchers from Shanghai Academy of Social Sciences Shaojian: Are Chinese men slovenly? Do Chinese men have the time and energy to meticulously repair uncut? Only to investigate Chinese men's appearance is not good enough for Chinese women, but how much data did the Chinese men take on the responsibilities and pressures of work, family and childcare during this period of social transformation? There is the success that we generally advocate, as if everyone must succeed. And the definition of success is so narrow that it can be summarized in eight words-promotion, homecoming. Don't you dare to go back to your hometown if you don't get rich? As for how to promote the external image of Chinese men, I think that men should first give them a uncut mentality to uncut. Even calmly do oneself can not do, talk about what personal self-cultivation? So, rather than discuss this topic, it is more realistic to discuss what makes Chinese men not worthy of Chinese women. Ren: Part of the Women's gold worship transmission error signal Psychologist Ren: there is a saying very well, I picked up bricks can not hold you, put down the bricks can not support you. I believe this is a true portrayal of the hearts of many ordinary Chinese men. For many Chinese women, they think that men's power and charisma come from the power and wealth they have, and that temperament, conversation, knowledge and appearance, form, etc., are second, and can accommodate. This also gives the opposite sex to pass such a wrong signal--as long as I have the right to be rich, again ugly again be wretched also not afraid to find a woman.