Is it really good to add 536 friends a day?

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Junior High School, I like to see a variety of books, fortune-telling, Feng Shui, law, family ... I've touched it.

What is really frequent is the story, the reader, and the Youth Digest.

Once, I saw a story in a book, called: the way to make 100 dollars a day.

The story is about an Uncle Sam, who published a message in a tabloid newspaper saying that he had a way to earn 100 dollars a day, who would send him 10 dollars for this method, and then he sent the method by mail.

Someone really bought him a way, but the reply received only one sentence: Copy me.

The whole story to the effect is this, concrete early forget, pattern is not wrong.

This pattern, which appears in many variants, is also common on the web.

Yesterday, I hit the real version again ... A friend suddenly sent a small advertisement in the group, which reads as follows:

Today I added 536 friends!! Now can teach you a way to add people! No more software! One day automatically adds hundreds of people the problem is not big! NO money! Whether you are a micro-business or make friends are very helpful to the method of letters to find me! Signal XXX Code: I want the method.

I think a lot of people know that this is the so-called method is: this sentence to copy mass to your group, the inside of the number to your ...

After seeing it, I cleared him out of the group, and then there was a debate in the group: Should this be the way to fool people?

Some think it can be used completely, some think it can be improved to reduce the full of the flicker;

The argument is longer, let me say the result: most people think that this method should not be used.

What do I think? I do not agree with this method from the heart, even very disgusted, clear is a cheat, although it may be very effective.

First, effective, is only reflected in a lot of people add you as a good friend, but these friends, useful?

The answer is: it's no use being fooled into more.

Like this method of people, is standing in their own position to consider the problem, feel that others can accept such a trick, feel that others do not mind ...

In fact, most people, are not agree with this method, because it is obviously a cheat, we are not children, you fooled once, will take into account the cost of such a trick, the end may be their own bad luck, will not continue to cheat others, but from then on your impression greatly discounted.

Suppose I take this approach to 500 friends a day, what will happen?

At best, half the people agree with this method, and think very "witty", they are similar people, birds of a feather, like to play all kinds of tricks, so attracted to the people, the quality is too low, the other half, not similar people, may completely deny my character, "This is a cheat"!

Some people would say, forget what others think, and then slowly let them change their impressions.

In fact, it's hard. In psychology, there is a "first due effect", refers to: the first contact with people in the impression of people in the other's mind formed and occupy a dominant position. To put it simply, you are fooled into adding you, plus you have half of the people will think you are a cheat, the first impression is too bad, the first contact lost credibility, in the future to establish a trust relationship, to pay a greater price.

Second, play Bad network circle

It's easy to play the whole big circle badly. If there is a big wave of people playing "from the media" in the banner of such a trick, then it is easy to let others think that the media is this virtue ...

Iii. teaching the bad guys

This mode, very easy to spread, because there is no cost, just put your own bottom line down a little bit can do, there will be many people to follow, the impact is very bad.

Do from the media want to long, must be able to bring good influence to others, guide good things, otherwise doomed to a flash in the pan.

Four, this method can be improved?

The improvement of the space is very small, this method is to use human greed to achieve, to achieve good results, must be committed to each participant can be obtained, if set to limit the number of places, then the effect than playing a 10 percent lower, others will not easily believe that a person who has never met promise you "have the opportunity" to get his prize.

This method, no good, no advantage for themselves, no good for others, and do not do things that do not selfish.

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