Father's Day net friends sun "father love positive energy" lead to resonance

Today is Father's Day. On the Internet, people hail out touching moments related to their fathers to express their gratitude and reverence. At the same time as various kinds of "positive energy of father and father" such as "feeding father" and "runaway father" attract attention, some weird characters such as "fight father" and "wolf daddy" also impact people's cognition of father's role, Thinking of Fatherhood.

Friends hot sun "father love positive energy" lead to resonance On the eve of Father's Day this year, a report on "feeding dad" was widely circulated in the community, people for the father's never bewildered sigh.
It is reported that more than 3-year-old daughter Wang had a rare disease - achalasia, because malnutrition led to tooth loss, can not chew eating. In order to let her daughter eat, his father Wang Zhihua chew food and then mouth to her mouth. As the king can keep vomiting, this feeding action should be repeated numerous times a day. More than 500 days, every day.
"Feeding Dad" so many netizens touched, "Storm dad" story also tear-jerk.
To donate liver help to daughter with congenital biliary atresia, "80" Guangdong father Luo Zhanxun ran 10 km per day, five months to lose weight 12 kg, the successful elimination of fatty liver, the media nicknamed "runaway daddy."
In addition to the stories of "Feeding Daddy" and "Raging Daddy", netizens are still basking in "Road Making Daddy", "Sushi Daddy", "Cartoon Daddy", "Band Hoop Daddy", "Nude Daddy", "Police Daddy" "Desperate father" and other kinds of "Father's Love positive energy" story, triggering a wide range of hot discussion.
For children to work tirelessly, the fatal story of love on the Internet is worth praising. In the view of most netizens, the energy that my father passed on to her is reflected in their companionship and care, which is manifested in the positive impact they have on their children's livelihood.
Netizen "@ Imagine Li," tells his story: "I remember when I was a child, every day daddy are waiting for me quietly in front of the school, winter is coming, the wind whistling, whenever my father saw me, he was frozen Flushed face suddenly revealed a brilliant smile, I feel very happy.
Netizen "Police Brothers" said, "My father is a mountain, dressed in police uniform, and I am even more thankful for my father's love. My father's love has given me the present 'police character': resolute and resolute. Things to do must be indomitable. Promise; as much as promised, things must be done in every possible way to fulfill; brave to play, will never be responsible for the crisis in front of others, will not sacrifice for others to save themselves!

However, it is worth noting that while the "positive energy" is favored by his father's love, there are some strange things that impact people's perception of the role of the father, "fight father", "nibbling father "," Pit father "," wolf dad "," eagle dad "and so on. It not only tests the patriarchal ways of the people, but also encourages people to reflect on the way of father education.
The lack of a father's role in children's education is thought to be responsible for the above problems. Xia Xuelu, a professor of sociology at Peking University, told the Xinhuanet reporter: "Many fathers give their children heavy materials, but they do not set a good example for their children. Instead, they pass on their unhealthy habits of breaking traditional values ​​such as unhealthy tendencies."
"Between father and son is not only the inheritance of blood relationship, but also the inheritance of values." Zhong Jun, director of the Research Center for Economic and Social Construction of the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences, pointed out that as the main role of intergenerational transmission of values, especially in the social transition in which values ​​are meticulously collided, Misplaced or distorted values ​​of the father will inevitably lead to the distortion of the values ​​of the children.
"Therefore, as a father, the most important thing is to help children establish the correct values, bear the brunt of the most insured, is the first to pass on the Chinese traditional values, both benevolent righteousness and wisdom." Zhong Jun told reporters in the new site.
Some education experts believe that parents' family education in China often has the quick-impact mentality, imposing their own will on children and denying children their individuality and dignity for the so-called "success." This kind of "feather duster education" is also the reason why Chinese families A common mistake in education.
What role should play in children's life? What kind of education to help their children grow? For each of these questions, every father thinks more or less.
Zhong Jun pointed out that the father-son should be independent and mutually respectable and equal individuals. Father does not force children, children do not depend too much on his father. Fatherhood in particular needs to establish correct, mainstream values ​​in the social transition, not for anything else, for children.
Xia Xiluan emphasizes that "children are greatly influenced by their mothers when they are young. However, when they grow up, their influence will be greater than that of their mothers. The power of their example and the effect of precept and example on their children have a very big impact on their children. Therefore, , Motivated, take on the awareness of children and other aspects of a good demonstration, to pass on to the next generation of outstanding national character.