Father's Day network of the status quo, the virtual world is more lively than real life

Yesterday was the third Sunday in June, the Western Father's Day. Reporters in Anshun bustling streets and some shopping malls and found that both businessmen and ordinary citizens, is not a fathers day, did not appear as Valentine's Day and the traditional festival Dragon Boat Festival as thick atmosphere of the festival. On the internet, the various blessings about Father's Day are relatively hot. Some users ridicule: You are so filial online, your father know? Someone called, more concerned about the old father at home, I remember often go home and see.

"Father's Day"

Virtual world is more lively than real life

Yesterday, netizen "old cow eat grass and free" to "6.15 wish all fathers are healthy" as the theme in Anshun Post Posted: Time and slow it, do not let you get old, I would like to change all my years with you Long stream. On Father's Day, this simple blessing immediately led to a large number of users thread, have written the most sincere wishes to his father.

In qq space or WeChat circle of friends, all kinds of "For the world's most love your man forwarded," "Please take a little while, do not leave a trace in my dad's face," and other warm words broadcasted by Internet users sought after. On Weibo, various segments of the father's blessing is also growing rapidly.

Network is a virtual world, on Father's Day, many users express their heart's father's blessing. But in real life, Anshun citizens are particularly "calm."

Yesterday morning, the reporter visited Anshun bustling streets and some shopping malls found that, whether it is the major shopping malls or supermarkets men's products counter, or men's clothing stores, basically did not specifically for the Father's Day held a variety of promotional activities. "We only do some holiday promotion activities during Valentine's Day or Dragon Boat Festival and do not do activities specifically for Father's Day, and this year's Father's Day hit the World Cup and there are relatively many people concerned about the World Cup." Anshun New Cross Shopping malls staff introduction, on Father's Day, more about the "World Cup" promotional activities.

Network show love is accused of "virtual care"

Reporters carefully found that in Anshun post bar users "old cow to eat tender grass free" on the Father's Day blessing post, not only users blessing, there are netizens on the virtual world's blessing did not agree. Netizen "love dizzy ℃" users thread said: "There is more than one online 'dutiful son', your father also play paste it?"

"Every year, Mother's Day, Father's Day, QQ Space, Weibo and WeChat all show a 'filial piety' topic that describes how great their parents are and wishes them a happy holiday." Mr. Li said to the public, "Although the brush screen sends blessings, Older dads and mums seldom own these social tools, and they should not see them at all, and forwarding such languages ​​seems to have become a sign of their filial piety. "Such caring parents can not comprehend , Can only be called fake 'filial son'.

"Parents are rural people, in front of their face, 'I love you', will feel very hypocritical, really nauseating, and only in microblogging, WeChat these parents can not see the place, dare to reveal the true feelings. Mr. Lee said that the "virtual love" on the Internet, although able to express the emotional feelings of some young people, but let parents know, or directly a little better.

"Can not go home to visit the old father at home, can only call my father." Referring to Father's Day, working in Anshun Hubei guy Xiao Liu said that from knowing Father's Day, has never been how specifically to his father, But my father did not know such a festival at all. On the Internet saw the news of Father's Day approaching, Liu said that on Father's Day, his father could not reach out to the network in remote rural areas. He usually made a phone call to his father and asked him to be good and care about his father The body, said the care and blessings of his father.

I remember often go home to spend more time with their parents

On Father's Day, many people express their love for their father through the Internet or by phone. However, a reporter interviewed found that "a simple greetings" is not what her father most wanted on that day.

"I just want my son to go home and see more, even taking the time to come back and have a meal." Zhang, who lives in Hongsha Community, said his son is working in Guangdong and can only go home once during the New Year. Speaking of Father's Day, he said that seeing his son on Father's Day is the best gift Father's Day received. However, this wish can not be fulfilled. In the morning, his son has called him by telephone and said he is busy with work and can not go home.

Today, more and more empty-nesters in China. According to press survey data show that about 170 million elderly people throughout the country, half of them living empty nest life. Mostly because the children are busy with work, far away, and can not always accompany their parents. "Daily companionship" has become a luxury for many parents.

As of July 1, 2013, "frequent home visits" were written into the newly revised Law on the Protection of the Rights and Interests of Older Persons. "Family members should be concerned about the spiritual needs of the elderly and should not neglect and neglect the elderly. Living family members should often visit or greet the elderly. "