International left-handed day: Experts remind the essence of child development is "Shun"

If the home child is left-handed, will you forcibly correct it? August 13 is the "International Left-Handed Day." Experts remind that the essence of cultivating children lies in "smoothness." As long as the use of the left hand does not result in any inconvenience in living and communication, it is appropriate for them to follow their natural cultivation. If forced to correct, there is the possibility of aggravating the conflict between parent-child relationship.

Heilongjiang Province, a counselor said the psychological counseling, visiting cases, "parents correct children left-handed" is visible. Children are ready to use the left hand, but in their parents, "scold scold" to the right hand, over time easy to produce psychological confusion, more children suffer from stuttering. After that, children are accustomed to using the left hand in the absence of their parents, and "correction" is often ineffective.

Expert analysis, most of these parents are out of social pressure, with the "common right" with the public psychology, afraid of children because of the use of the left hand and discrimination, that most people's habits is a good habit, but do not know this in fact with the child psychology Physiological development runs counter to.

"Using left-handed or right-handed individuals each has its own advantages, and it is advisable to have a mindset that" everything can be done right and left. "Some experts say some parents correct" left-handed " Make the child unpleasant. This is a seemingly right and left hand use problem, but in fact it is acquired after the conflict arising from the emotional problems.

Experts suggest that parents should accept the "left-handed" reality of children and often praise their children to use their left-hand lives if there is no evidence to prove the danger with the left hand. If the child volunteered, but also support the development of both hands, under the premise of the same stupid left hand, so that the right hand is also clever.

According to Xinhua News Agency