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Why the first month of the first time back to her mother?

The so-called home is of course refers to a married daughter with a husband and children back home to parents.
Why must the first lunar month and not the first month? Superstitious belief that the deceased ancestors, the end of the year from heaven to enjoy the worship. If the ancestors see the family have "outsiders", they do not want to enter the home, because, married women are considered "outsiders", so married women can not be at home on New Year's Eve, the first grade.
After the ancestors enjoy the worship, in the Junior day (or the day) to return to the sky at night, the daughter can go home. This rule in the old society, especially in the countryside is very strict, violated is a big disrespect. Although people in the new society do not believe in ghosts, they are still more strictly adhered to. If for a particular reason, married daughters at home for the New year, it may be parents, family members will be very unhappy. It is also a cultural phenomenon that has long been followed and may be performed for a long time. The
back to Mother's home is also called "mothering". The door of the bride of the past have many taboos, but only the taboo of the bride's return to her mother. After the bride door, the identity has changed, is the people, so the mother's family often "against her." Source: Xinhua
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1 years, wearing new clothes, back to her mother, happy heart. See parents, make a Yi, ask a good, send a gift. To a cup of wine, table filial piety, happy, good luck. Only eat jujube, do not eat pears, the whole family kiss, never leave.
2 years, back to her mother, the following points to bear in mind: The table filial piety, preach filial piety, parents owe much gratitude; buy things, not too expensive, not heavy price of the mind, pounding legs, knocking on the back, also let Chou enjoy the blessing. Wish the whole family happy!
4 of the same time back to her mother, Hee ha. The left hand calls, the right hand red envelopes. Happy in front of the road, the rear happiness surrounded. On the clouds, under the broad eight. East has good luck, West has the lucky Star high photograph. There is a bonanza in the South, and good luck in the north. Bosom Hug Ruyi Companion, happy warm sweet. Couples share weal and woe, love is unwavering. Wishing you a happy New Year!
7 years, blessing to, over the year, set off firecrackers, reunion dinner, good taste, reunion, happy, home, happiness, peace charm, home cover, lucky sign, all draw; New Year, everything is good!
3 years, back to her mother, two gifts to send auspicious, said that care, to love, bless Chou Forever health, cooking, washing laundry, earnest concern filial piety Gao; Happy to be home!
5 years, ask a good. Fushen to, festive around. Wealth hood, financial resources. Home harmony, less trouble. Future beauty, high income. Career Hing, high official career. Wind and rain, good harvest. The things you wish, le carefree.
6 to accompany his wife back to her home, we must remember to thank the mother-in-law, is she cultivated the leadership of our life, she has cultivated our salary managers.
8 The second year of the year, to you to worship a good. A worship of two old life high, two worship family beautiful, three worship relatives and friends Love prison; four years of the rabbit luck;Pray for peace, and seven prayers for good health;